A Little Bit About Me
A girl is missing. Her life is full of problems and disappointments, and bad things happen to her all the time, yet she realizes that everybody's life is like this. She keeps contact with family and friends, visits them, and invites them over. She's developing her career by going to school or by working, yet she balances that with her life outside of work. She's so beautiful that most guys think she's high maintenance and out of their league, but in reality, she's friendly and sociable with a wonderful personality. She's independent, so she enjoys her own life and her own ambitions. She's almost always happy, and she has a long temper rather than a short one. Her online profile gets lots of attention, so she gets messages from lots of guys, yet she realizes this is normal for all women. She does not get frustrated by the offensive or annoying messages she receives from some men, even if she thinks those men are unattractive and undesirable. She's a woman, so she gets way more messages than almost every man. She's picky, because she has high standards for the man she seeks, and she will not settle for anything less. But on the other hand, she does not get into the tempting and addictive habit of presuming that high-quality men will approach her in the near future, so she can simply reject or ignore all the men who are sending messages to her right now, so she can keep waiting indefinitely for those better-quality men of the future, in a repetitive pattern that can continue forever. She knows better than to waste her time. She understands that she has to deal with lots of different men, yet she must maintain her composure through all her dealings with them. Her sense of humor helps her to deal with difficult situations with genuine humility, empathy, laughter and smiles. She realizes how much fierce competition most men must face in their attempts to meet women. She knows that seeing a person's online profile and meeting that same person in the real world can be very different experiences. Even if she has an online profile, it's still possible for her to meet a nice guy through her family, friends, classmates, colleagues or social situations, in the real world. She's a nubile debutante. Other women want to be like her, yet they are not jealous or scornful towards her, and men everywhere desire her and long for her. She's able to handle the seemingly contradictory and conflicting requirements and constraints of finding a suitable man to be a part of her life.
Perhaps that missing girl may consider a man who supports her and encourages her to pursue all of her academic, athletic and career objectives as well as her hobbies and personal interests. That man would treat her with respect and openly communicate with her. I am a man who's seeking this girl. I spend lots of time at work. In university I did bachelor's and master's degrees in electrical engineering. I work as an electrical engineer. I enjoy designing and building things. I'm naturally curious about how things work, and I try not to take too many things for granted. Outside of work, I play tennis (indoors and outdoors), a childhood hobby that I continue to this day. I also cook cuisines from around the world. Sometimes I get lazy, immature and childish -- for no apparent reason -- which are traits that are generally common to all guys. In some situations, I try to see things from the viewpoints of other people, as my way of trying to understand what's happening. I'm not perfect as I have my faults, and I suffer with problems, failures and mistakes. If there's any girl who might be interested in considering me, then I encourage her to lower her expectations before meeting me in real life. This would be helpful for both of us if we eventually meet each other. Of course, if she's that missing girl, then she would already understand these things, and she would look so beautiful while she's at it. So who is this missing girl, and where is she?
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