What I Am Looking For
I am searching for happiness.. I'd like to find a Muslima girl or a converted girl to Islam who would like to share with me the great values of Islam and happiness together. This person has to be open minded and not too religious. Don't get me wrong, I love Islam and like to follow its great values, but I don't want to talk about nothing but Islam. I love to learn about other people cultures, and learn about the world as a whole..
A woman with Hijab doens't really impress me. I've seen too many women with Hijab but they wear tight jeans & tons of makeup, which doesn't make sense..
As long as the woman dresses respectfully & conservatively I am Ok with that. Islam should be in our heart.. I judge people by their actions and not by Hijab or growing a beard. Islam is more than that, Islam is about how you apply it on your daily basis. It is about respect, helping others, caring & kindness, treating your neighbor with respect, regardless what religion they believe in.. I can go on and on..
In short, I’d like to be with someone who follows the good Islamic values that were passed on to us by our parents, someone who enjoys life & outdoors such as sports, traveling, dinning out, and experience all the great things that life and God has provided to us. Someone who speaks her mind, yet, in a respectful manner and not be afraid to make wise decisions in the house just as much as her husband does. I am not the type of person who is driven by men’s ego & his arrogance wishing to dominate everything in the household all the time. Of course, I will always be there to lead my family into the right path, but a leader has to have someone who supports his decisions too. A leader is not always right, only Allah (swt) is. I am not perfect, at times I do make mistakes too. As we all know, most of the countries in the world have Presidents and Vice Presidents for a reason, simply because if something does happen to the President, the Vice President should be able to take over and lead his country gracefully. The same thing should apply to our family. Nobody knows what the future holds for us, in the event something does happen to the father, his wife should be able to carry on her duties in taking good care of the children. For this reason, a man should be truthful & honest to his wife and he should not be afraid to keep his Vice President so to speak involved in all his decisions making, that’s what I call a healthy family..
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