A Little Bit About Me
Assalamu Alaikom wrwb,
I am a born Muslim and started practising salah and hijab around my early 20s' by choice Alhamdulillah. It's been quite a journey. Alhamdulillah. I am the eldest of four siblings. And I am quite close to my family.
I have always loved our beautiful religion Islam as a way of life and held it dearly to my heart. I love listening to Islamic lectures and reading beneficial books and find it a fulfilling to attend lectures and seminars and like to go to places where the environment is clean and Islamic. I have attended some courses on a weekly basis at Tayyibun previously but nothing very thorough. Insha’Allah in the future I would like to make more time and start learning Arabic to help understand the Qur’an better and Insha’Allah learn a lot more on a regular basis. With that being said,alongside my spouse would be most ideal, Insha'Allah.
I enjoy spending time with family and friends and enjoy having a laugh with people close to me. I take pride in comforting and caring for my loved ones. I am quite an outgoing person yet not very loud in personality. I am quite an introvert and shy sort of person but appear to be confident at the same time. I can also be very sensitive at times but wish to change that Insha’Allah. I wish to improve on my Islamic manners and ettiquettes and will Insha’Allah try to improve on it for the rest of my life.
Previously I was studying for a degree, having studied for two years but was unable to complete it for personal reasons. I currently work in Administration but would prefer that in the long run I would prioritise giving all my time to my husband and future children Insha’Allah.
I strongly believe marriage will be of great benefit in improving and bettering my position in deen Insha’Allah as I would like to do lots of different things and learn Islamic knowledge together with my husband and please Allah swt as a couple Insha’Allah.
I am very attached to my hijab and usually like to stay quite simple when going out. I am generally quite simple in terms of my lifestyle but do enjoy dressing up on occasions. Not to say I wouldn’t make efforts for my husband when at home.
I enjoy cooking different types of dishes and like to experiment in the kitchen at times. I would also like to take up further short courses there are for ladies like sewing/ stitching, gardening, baking and other beneficial things to learn Insha’Allah.
What I Am Looking For
I am looking for a friend in a husband as well as someone who has a passion for Islam and enjoys living Islam and likes to or would like to seek knowledge of deen to help his spiritual wellbeing insha'Allah. Someone who would be concerned about the upbringing of his children and would think it important to give support and time in educating them Islamically along with his wife Insha’Allah.
I am looking for someone simple and down to earth and one who knows how to be able to balance Deen and Dunya. Ideally, someone who attends mosque regularly and is affiliated with the concerns of the Muslim community in some way, someone who would like to seek knowledge and intends to continually improve spiritually and in character.
Someone who is very kind Insha’Allah and would like to be a companion to me and would like to have such a relationship where we both do things together Insha’Allah. And hopefully experience the bliss of praying tahajjud together aswell..Ameen.
Patience is an admirable, yet rare trait which I hope to find in a potential partner as it is such an important part of our deen too.
Someone willing to talk through any problems and forgive and make up. Someone who would treat me with kindness, and would like to follow the example of our beloved Prophet (SAW) towards his family.
"The most perfect of the believers is the best of you in character, and the best of you are those among you who are best to their wives"
I would be very appreciative if he would treat my family with respect and relate to them with concern and kindness Insha’Allah.
In return I would love to be a dedicated wife and mother, always looking out for the good and bad affecting my family. I would like to try my best to fulfil the duties of my husband to please him, and respect him for he will be the key to my Jannah Insha’Allah.
I pray to Allah to give us all the Happiest outcomes in our search for a spouse insha'Allah, and Helps us all to fulfil this half of our deen!! Ameen.