A Little Bit About Me
I am truly blessed by Allah swt for blessing me with such a loving, amazing, unique family. I guess there are not enough words in the world to describe my beautiful family. All I can is Alhumdulillah, all praise be to Allah! My family gave me the freedom to live my life within limits. I have understood the value of acceptance and compromise, Alhamdulillah I am grateful. I realise you can’t have everything you desire and life doesn’t go to the way you plan. This has made me strong enough to deal with situations in life, to be able to let go of things without making an issue provided by my family. These values are for me important in every phase in life In Shaa Allah.
I have an amazing set of siblings Alhumdulillah. We are a set of six, 1 older sister, 2 older brothers and 2 younger whom I adore with my life and not to mention I have 2 great sister in laws with many talents, one bakes cakes and the other does professional henna. Alhumdulillah for my gorgeous niece and nephews who mean the world to me! I absolutely adore them all! I am known to them as Lala. Lol. One of my eldest brothers graduated in BA criminology and currently works for the UK Border Agency. My youngest brother graduated in BA Sociology and not to mention my beautiful niece who also graduated in BSc Biological Sciences. Alhumdulillah.
I love my parents with all my heart, I owe everything to my parents for giving me the best upbringing for teaching me and having me inclined with my faith.
I am not currently working right this moment but however I am looking for an ideal job that comes my way In shaa'Allah.
I do have bad and good qualities like everyone else in the world. I think I should start off with the good ones first, don't think I want to mention my bad ones. Lol. One thing I know for sure is I do have a lot of patience in life. Alhumdulillah. If I can't have something or it doesn’t go my way, I accept the outcome and realise it is for the best. As mentioned in the Qur'an “….and it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows but you do not know.” (Quran Al-Baqarah:216). Alhumdulillah I would say I am a very easy and chilled out person to talk to and always open for a heart to heart conversation like if anyone needed to share their problems and what they are going through, I would be more than happy to be there and help them. I am a cheerful and bubbly person, I like to have a laugh and make others laugh too. Alhumdulillah. I would say I am kind and polite, someone who knows how to respect and address elders and others. However I can be shy at times but for good reasons. I can cook well alhumdulillah so no need to get scared of being food poisoned. Lol. I do have a good sense of humour; well that’s what I’ve been told! I have a loving and caring nature and love to make people feel special.
What I Am Looking For
I WOULD FIRST LIKE TO SAY NO 40 OR OVERS OLD ENOUGH TO BE MY DAD HAD TO BE BLUNT! This part is actually really hard to put it in writing, in your head you know what you’re looking for but just don't know how to word it out. Bismillah. I do have an ideal spouse in my mind but I do have to think realistic about this. Ideally I am looking for someone who is really down to earth, a people's person whom has a smile on their face even if the sun's not shining but still has the ability to smile and say Alhumdulillah. Someone who's so easy to talk to without passing judgement for not knowing something and is willing to help you progress in life. Be able to stand up to what's wrong and right. I would be so happy to meet someone with a great sense of humour and have a laugh till I have tears coming out of my eyes. Lol. Someone who has a lot of patience in life and is able to deal with the ups and downs life brings through Salaah and sabr.
I am a family oriented person and would like someone to also be family oriented himself because I hold family ties very close to my heart. Having a good relationship with your family is an important characteristic I look for. Someone who is fun and loving not scared to show your childish side once in a while lol particularly someone who can get along with kids. Masha Allah that would make me very happy!
For me helping someone in need is very important and I would appreciate a partner who holds the same morals and not being afraid to be the first to help. Also presentation is very important to me. I would prefer if someone is well dressed from smart and casual to even track suit days depending on the occasion. Being well groomed is a characteristic I look for. In honestly, attraction plays a big role in selecting a spouse and I would say I can be fussy when it comes to that as your spouse is someone you plan to life your life with. I am sorry if I sound horrible! Rest assured I am not a horrible person. Hehe. The things that I dislike are people who are fake, bad manners such as swearing and being rude without reason, arrogance and those who belittle others.
The most important thing I left last is Deen. I would like someone on my wavelength or even a bit better than myself but someone who must pray all his five daily Salaah. I can understand sometimes due to work commitments maybe difficult but someone who prays the Salaah he has missed. Alhumdulillah I do my best in praying my Salaah like my family, wear my Hijab and dress modestly. However I am going to be honest in saying that I am not all that religious but definitely willing to improve myself In Shaa’Allah!
I want someone in the middle who knows how to be of good character within his deen yet able to be chilled out and relaxed! I am looking for one who is a UK citizen, born and bred in the UK preferably located in London as I have live here and wouldn’t want to be too far away from home! I pray deeply to Allah swt that my spouse can fulfil his duties to his family and wife to the best of his ability. Someone who understands right and wrong. Please do forgive me if I have unintentionally offended anyone reading my profile. May Allah swt guide us to our spouses and bless everyone. Aameen.
Plz no 40 or 40+ year old plz.
Wa alaikum assalaam