A Little Bit About Me
Asalaam Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,
Welcome to my profile!
( I hope you do not get bored and fall asleep as its quite long lol )
I am described as an attractive, slim and petite woman.I am told I look much younger than my age alhamdulillah. Even recently a few friends that are close to my age commented that I look like I am in my twenties!
Words that would describe me (by people who also know me) are adventurous, humorous,sophisticated,classy lively, young at heart ( sometimes I feel I could be stuck in my younger years lol) and bit of an entertainer.
honest,decent,shy, well-mannered and a humble practising sunni muslim.
Sometimes I can be a little impatient and apprehensive. Hesitant and unsure when taking big decisions and that is alot due to life experiences that can shape you. I do need that extra boost of confidence sometimes and great supportive understanding husband is what I need by my side In sha Allah!
I like taking care of myself,family and home.
Some people only realise what they had when they lose it!
I have been hurt and unappreciated therefore time wasters ...please turn away!
I didnt judge people in the past on their status and culture but sadly repeated bad experience with Pakhtoon husbands has changed all that.
If your someone that has lists of female friends and want to justify that you can keep them after marriage,I will not be interested.
I dont keep male friends. I deserve a loyal husband as I am a loyal wife. Only here to find a genuine good hearted husband.
Also if your wanting just fun or intimate chats please don't contact me.I fear Allah and only looking for a halal nikah! You would be wasting my time and yours if you contact me thinking otherwise.
Interests are health and beauty, dance,exercise, modelling,coordinating my own outfits,photography, travelling to new places and the countryside.Camping and going on long drives.Still enjoy going on the swings lol
I like action, thriller, suspense sci-fi and romantic movies. Some of my favourites: Braveheart, Gladiator, Sirf Tum and Vivah.
Many of my friends and acquaintances suggest I write a book about my life experiences claiming it will be a best seller...maybe if I have some further inspiration.
I have been told I have a melodious voice so hopefully my husband wont mind me singing to him! In younger years few friends said I sound a little like the singer Lata and Alisha chinoy (unless sore throat lol). Some favourites Tinka tinka, honton pe bas tera naam hai, My heart will go on (titanic) and I will always love you (Bodyguard).
I have a huge wardrobe/room (hundreds) of fashionable items clothing,shoes and jewellery etc.(A womans dream and I may have the most in UK)
Just waiting for a suitable Prince In sha Allah.
I do like giving my things to charity to recycle.I had hoped to have been able to open a small school in a needy country as I had the resources at one time but sadly unfulfilled.I still have hopes dreams to help the needy and orphans ahead In sha Allah ( Doing this physically in real is a wish).
I can speak 3 languages Urdu, English and Punjabi.
I come from a well educated family and I was born and bred in West Yorkshire.
I have balanced eastern western values.
I would like to increase my knowledge on Islam and share that with a husband so we can improve ourselves together In sha Allah.
I married young (so did not pursue a career) and gave my life bringing up my children mostly as a single mother with no regrets.
I have older children who are married and my youngest child is 12yrs old. I am also blessed alhamdulillah to be a grandmother to five beautiful grandchildren!
I hope there are some real genuine people out there still. Who will want and believe to work hard to build a marriage and try their utmost to make it work and not have a negative attitude to end it over every little matter that arises.
For those of you who ask me if I am a model.
No I am not but yes I will be for my husband only ;)
My photos are all taken recently without filters and just to mention I am not plastered with make-up lol takes me just a few mins alhamdulillah ( I dont even know much about make-up techniques!)
Unfortunately I have returned after 2yrs traumatic experience. My ex destroyed my life and family relations (turned out to be a pyscho, a compulsive liar and a disgraceful human) which caused the divorce. I have experienced alot: threats,lies and broken oaths on Quran, no respect for our beautiful deen and exes fighting to win me back.I have been unlucky with the people I met in life and they were all tests for me! I was their dreamgirl and a soft natured wife but they didnt know to handle me with care instead went crazy in fear of losing me and actually did lose me. A person who does not fear breaking Allahs divine set laws is not what I would like to see again.
I value someone who fears Allah,being honest,the most.I believe in telling the truth even if it has a detrimental outcome.
If you are interested to know more about me :).... Just Ask!
What I Am Looking For
What am I looking for?
I would like to meet someone who has many of these qualities: Handsome, expressive, smart, well-groomed, humorous, caring, sensitive, loving, romantic and energetic!
Someone who is an understanding and respectful person.
Handsome in my eyes as attraction is important too.
Character is the ultimate attraction.
From my past bad experiences I am not interested in selfish,manipulative,arrogant,aggressive and violent natured people!
A good listener and intellectually stimulating with a great level of communication!
If you cant manage at least a few texts daily before and after marriage we wouldn't get along.
My priority has and always will be the husband and would like that too.
Hope we will be on the same wave length or close :)
Silent love isn't what I am looking for.
Rest assured! I am not interested in your wealth or what you drive. ( Never married a wealthy man actually it was quite the opposite) I am looking for true love.
I am satisfied with the the littlest gifts or gestures. Not a woman who is always seeking holidays as homely or a woman who does not think about her husbands financial position.
Wish future partner to be my soul mate!
A person whow respects women. Wish we pray together and help each other to strengthen our Iman to attain paradise in hereafter In sha Allah.
He should be practising muslim who prays 5 times a day etc (at least wish to improve or geared that way) and wish to live a life in boundaries of Islam (that does not mean it will be boring!)
A man who fears Allah and respects the Quran and lives daily by the rules of our deen.
Age does not matter, I have had no problem with being contacted by younger gentlemen!
Please have your pics ready to view if interested as it is fair and saves time.
It can embarass some of our sisters if we have to keep requesting.
Also I noted some people are changing pics everytime I change mine and with same matching colours! 😯🙄 Sorry if I am not interested the first time I wont be if you change pics and contact again.
I am also interested in people who are hoping to relocate to the middle east in the future.
May Allah help us all in our search for a compatible spouse. Ameen
"O Lord, give me the best husband from Your side, the husband that becomes my best friend in the matters of religion,world and hereafter."
JazakAllah for reading through my lengthy profile!