A Little Bit About Me
This is tricky. I have a strong faith in Allah SWT, pray regularly, read Islamic literature to get better understanding of Islam's guidance for different facets of our lives. I am continuously striving to be a better Muslim, each day.
I am an outdoor junkie, be it traveling, bungee jumping, sky diving (still after it), paintball, rock climbing, you get the idea. Not a big fan of living in metropolis, adore the life of suburbs (likes of Mid West).
I am an Aquarian (for those of you who are into astrology, not me). Like meeting new people. I can start a conversation with anyone, anywhere, anytime. I am eccentric, trying to figure out my plan in this world. We all can't be down here doing what millions before us have done and perished. We spend our lives living on conventions that no one has ever questioned their legitimacy or pondered over their need fullness.
I am a strong believer in social work. Not even the world's most scrumptious meal can give us the satisfaction and inner peace that helping a needy with the basic food to satisfy his appetite would do.
This is all I can think of right now. Good Luck with your search.
What I Am Looking For
I am looking for a practicing muslimah, who prays regularly, has a strong faith in Allah SWT and is seeking to be a better Muslim. My two biggest considerations for a spouse are her deen/religion and her character.
We humans tend to flicker on our feelings. So when we proclaim likeness and love for our own sake, it usually fades out. But when we like and love our spouse for the sake of Allah SWT, only then the feelings sustain because then our feelings are not driven by our subjective emotions rather they are driven by Allah SWT's commandments.
She has to like kids, does enjoy traveling on really short notice..lol, always on the seek out for adventures, loves to laugh, enjoys cooking (bonus !).
Don't we all wish we could have a customized spouse, lol. No two persons can like everything about each other. We have to compromise, not on our values but on our wants and needs. If we are able to compromise as such, then we can take the sourness out of marriage. So she has to be understanding of and is willing to compromise. And yes, I totally understand that compromise is required on part of both, husband and wife. So don't worry, am already there, lol.
I am positive and upbeat about the husband and wife relationship. Wife is not a maid, she is not a house keeper alone or a baby sitter. She is a complete individual who is the mother of the children, a protector of home, keeper of the husband. A wife is the best buddy a husband can ever have. She is the first and the last person standing by her husband through the sweet and the sour.
So, whoever is out there, drop a hello and you never know !