A Little Bit About Me
Thanks for dropping by ,
May peace be upon all of you and may allah bless you with the best of health,prosperity,peace and imaan.
Hope all of you are in fascinating and charming mood insha allah :)
I thank you further to all gentleman out there in advance to be patient and bearing with me while going through my profile.i will try to keep it absolute minimun before you think of exit strategies :)
I find it difficult to explain who i am as i do not take the liberty in praising myself.
but do i hve an option without doing the above i dont think so.
However to adhere with this question posed in this site ,which is probably the most important section .the better you do here the better you sell yourself,though every profile seems to be the same.
To market yourself is a real tough job ,so i hereforward my plea for your consideration ...a thoughtful consideration.
I dont know what and how to write somthing unique which sets my profile a little different.
I dont know how to write to impress the ones whom i am impressed with(potentials).
Which colour i should write in as i dont know which colour you will be pleased with.
Unfortunately words are not the substitute for the feelings most of the times .words fall short and usually dont justify the volumes of your feelings.
I can confirm (without asking my freinds) as i know myself as a person better than anyone else.i can confirm i am a simple human being without having very high demands from the world but peace and love.
but i have demands from myself towards my goals and acheivements ,towards my values ,self respect and betterment of my imaan insha allah .
I am a person who has faith in allah and a firm belief in myself.
I start practising recently (not the way i should do it but i am learning and trying my best),even though i was raised up as a muslim .but i guess apart from usual duties namaz and ramadaan there are so many other things we should follow as muslims in our actions and behaviour on daily basis.
i start questioning life and start finding the answers in my faith & belief in allah and realised that this is the truth and i need to follow.i want to keep moving on forward n keep on learning ,improving my life.
my deen is intimate but paramount ,the closer u get the more of that is shown.Islam keeps me strong.
I believe that i would be a very kind ,affectionate and very caring wife.
Let me clarify somthing here first before people being judgemental on the basis of above paragraph.i am clarifying it to myself and to you without forcing my opinions.
Many of us assume people who follow islam are not enough fun to be with and are not llively.who says you cannot have fun within the boundaries of islam .well it also depends on whats your definition of fun in your dictionary !
(most of us have this misunderstanding unfortunately)
Religion and culture are two different things ,by no means we should relate or confuse with these two with each other.thank u
I apologise i am making it way too long but i cannt be summed up in a paragraph ...I mean who can???
Above all i am I'm generally a lively woman with a twinkle in her eye and a gusto for life, so you will never be bored or weary. I do have a good heart and try in life to be the best human being I can, do the right thing, and try to learn from my mistakes. I'm not stubborn and can see others point of view if they are articulate enough to convince me.
I have a natural aura of being happy no matter what life has to offer.
There are people who let it happen ,people who make it happen and people who wonder what happened.
I am one of those who fall in second category in every aspect of my life.its not neccesary to acheive evrything you want but there is no harm in trying thats what i belive atleast.
I just want to live a contented life (not necesarily comfortable), punctuated by some travels, and the odd parachute jump / crazy venture! adventure runs in my blood .sky diving ,bungee jumping ,scuba diving are some of my fav adventure sports.
I believe in allah and he is a part of my daily life ! I also believe in the universal truths .You will reap what you sow, treat others as you wish to be treated, we will pay in some way for the bad we do etc...in this world only .
i am an ambitious person beyond measure at times crazy.bit philosophical ,spritualy inclined and highly self motivated.
travelling of course as everybody else here does ...have been to couple of countries but i would like to explore more with my companion.HAJJ insha allah will be the first thing to start with.
i like reading any inspirational stuff ,writing (occasionaly i do write).
I am a family oriented and responsible person.
I am a little difficult person but very easy to please as small things matter to me
fun loving but at the same time can hold a sensitive conversation too.
there is a lot about a person .let me keep certain things with myself.insha allah i would be glad to share the rest to the person who i am destined with.
It is the only means of providing the basic information about me not a medium to know me as a person.communication is the only means rather than making any conclusions although thats going to happen to an extent anyway.but i think assumption is not the fair way of judgement
i guess this it it..
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What I Am Looking For
Difficult to explain,all i am asking for a god fearing gentleman.A good human being.
Nothing could be better if as a couple we both follow what all is writen in the quran (as how a husband or wife should be treated) and i follow the same.it seems to be an ideal relationship.insha allah .
A simple and a solvent man .Mostly who believes from the soul and does not need to rule his women with the mind but woo her with his actions ,AKHLAQ and from his heart.which is where allah lives by.
Someone who has been raised with defining manners ( not neccesary though bcoz some poeple have their own identities and thier own values.) i respect individual independance irrespective of his surroundings.you could be yourself without the influence of people around you. someone who knows how to laugh whole heartedly through the turbulent times of this life.
I seek what most people seek.truth, answers,fidelity and trust.
You dont have to be pleasant to the world as long as you are pleasant to my eyes.let me quote the universal saying here ...as beauty lies in the eyes of beholder.
( for a mother an ugliest kid is the most beautiful thing happened to her on this earth .she knows no comparison.no one seems to be as adorable as her own children)
I belive no one on the earth is ugly ..(it is just an example to make my point more clear)
So let the beauty of what you love be what you do.
Race,caste, poor is no issue for me as long as you are a good muslim and a good human being.i dont understand these words.
I guess nobody has hold on these things .It is a matter of chance not the choice.
nobody wants to be born poor or ugly.but what you are as a person is matter of choice not the chance. so watch youself ,watch your actions ,your behaviuor because only you have hold on them nobody else.
Birth,death and marriage are set by allah and i trust in his choice.I am in the process to uncover his choices for me.but it wont be difficult to spot him trust me.The signs will be apparent and clearly be manifested in his speech and mannerism.
I am looking for somone with a zest for life,with a spark in his eyes.
A lively person with a sharp wit .somone who can hold a conversation.who has a good intellect.straight forward person with no frills
someone who wants to be a part of a very happy family and one who will strengthen the family bond with love and respect. I want eye to eye on aspects of religion and hopefully on culture in a way that makes me feel he's my better half. Compatibility in this respect and on this level takes a lot of issues and hurdles off the table, gives peace of mind, and makes for a promising prospect. It also goes a long way having synchronized plans of how to lead the way with establishing a family --in my language it's compatibility .
Lastly somone with a good sense of humour to seal the package...
P.S I WANT TO GROW WITH YOU NOT ONLY OLDER BUT HAPPIER AND THE HAPPEIST WITH EACH OTHER WITH THE PASSAGE OF TIME.(evreybody grows older with each other willingly or unwillingly anyways) i hve observed some couples take each other for granted after somtime of marraige .the FIZZ goes off in the relationship which makes me sad .
I am sure those of you who are reading this never thought would actualy one day be looking for a companion over the internet.I would have laughed if somone told me i would be doing this years ago.
i guess that should be it
If this much doesnt convince you ,then i need to take a course in creative writing and try again.
Keep me in your duas dudes.
May allah bless us whatever is best for us.(aameen)
All the very best who so ever is searching for the right things in thier lives ......cheeers
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