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Tired of being Hurt

WNYGirl
My Sect
Just Muslim
Religiousness
Religious
My Profession
Health Care Professional
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
New York, Buffalo
Country
United States
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner
A Little Bit About Me
I am 36 years old, I have 1 daughter who is 10. I work helping Adults with Developmental Disabilities, and I love my job. I also love being at home raising a family but this is not an option for me right now. I am a revert to Islam for 2 years, but still learning and always will be learning.

I try to be funny and have fun, but I know how to be an adult too. I am friendly but some what shy at first. I don't always know what to talk about but I love to talk and carry on conversations. I am open and honest at all times and I have a low tolerance for liars. I care too much, and have trusted too easy in the past. I am loyal to a fault. I just want that one person in my life who I can rely on and love.

I have felt very alone for a very long time, and have gotten hurt much in the past for trusting the wrong people. I am very patient, understanding, and kind hearted. I am always trying to help people even when they have wronged me :(

Life has been a challenge, and it is not one that I regret or complain about, I just don't want to do it alone.

As for my weight, some unfortunate life events lead me hear, and I have spent time working towards correcting this successfully but I am not all the way there yet. I fear I will never be perfect but I am still and attractive woman with a big heart. However, someone who can not accept me at my worst, does not deserve me at my best. So please pass me by if looks are your main concern for your wife.

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What I Am Looking For
I am looking for someone who keeps Allah in his life, and keeps himself learning as well. I only want a husband who will make me a part of his real family. And if you are looking for someone to help get citizenship only and not for a true wife, then please pass me by.

I am looking for the one who will grow to love me for who I am. Someone who I can trust and trusts me. Some one who will want to protect me, wants the best for me, and not feed me to the wolves, because I would just about anything for him.

I am looking for someone who wants children of his own as I really do want more children inshallah, but also he accepts my daughter as his too because she has no father worth speaking of in her life. My daughter is also considered disabled so patients, learning, and understanding are involved with this. She is a beautiful wonderful girl with an amazing heart, but she can be very challenging and hard to handle too. So this is not for everyone and I understand that.

I don't want someone who is quick to anger, I can not handle anger and fights, there are better ways then this. I take the time to understand what others mean when they speak and work things out when there is misunderstandings or disagreements, and I never think that things should be only my way. Please be one who does the same.

I am not a perfect person, and I don't expect my husband to be perfect either. But lets try to help each other become the best version of ourselves that we can be for Allah and for each other.

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
American
Country of Origin
United States
Willing to Relocate?
Nationally
I am Looking to Marry
This year
My Income
15,000 - 25,000
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
Yes
Do I have children?
Yes
My Living Arrangements?
I Live With Family
Country
United States
County/State
New York, Buffalo
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.73m (5' 8")
My Build
Large
My Hair Colour
Dark brown
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
High school
Subject I Studied
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Work
My Profession
Health Care Professional
My Job Title
IRA Specialist (Day Aide)
Religion
Religiousness
Religious
My Sect
Just Muslim
Hijab/Niqab
Prefer not to say
Beard
Prefer not to say
Are You a Revert?
Yes
Do You Keep Halal?
Usually Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Usually