Quiet shy private serious person

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My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Religious
My Profession
Health Care Professional
Marital Status
Never married
County/State
East Sussex
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner
A Little Bit About Me
I'm a quiet, shy introvert and usually serious most of the time. But I have my own vision of an ideal society and ideal world, and I would only marry someone if she agrees with my strongly held views (it is my number 1 marriage condition).

I am "Sunni" (as in not Shia and not from any of the minority sects) but I don't follow any particular madhab/school of thought, and I practice Islam only to the basic necessary level (5 times daily fardh salah/namaz prayers, Ramadan fasting, and avoiding alcohol/pork/smoking/tattoos/Zinaa/clubbing), but i don't practice the religion much more than that. For example I don't do milad/mowlid celebrations, I don't do communal group Zikr, I don't visit graves/tombs, I don't attend religious conferences with famous shaykh guest speakers, and i don't get involved in running the masjid, etc.

I'm not very good at driving and prefer to use public transport to get around. I'm interested to travel and sightsee around the world but can't afford it right now, I would like to do that with my life partner after marriage. That is also part of the reason why I love learning languages: I know 7 so far to varying levels of fluency! Including colloquial Arabic which I improved a lot while recently living in Gulf Arabia where I have a lot of family and relatives.

For the nikkah I will accept only a small simple minimalist bare-bones ceremony, with minimum number of guests, and no reception party, sign some marriage certificate and get it all over and done with in less than an hour. I don't like to have an extravagant big fat wedding party where I am at the centre of attention.

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What I Am Looking For
My number 1 condition is that you should agree with my social and political worldviews, or at least don't oppose or challenge them even if my views are not exactly mainstream or popular. Also there are some things that should be kept strictly confidential between me and you only.

Regarding location, either you should relocate to live with me, or if that is not possible yet (for example maybe because you are currently in a work contract which obliges to keep you in your current town for a few more months) we could maintain a long distance relationship in the first few months of marriage until you eventually are ready to live with me.

I work in a fragile humble job so don't earn much, which is why i would prefer that you also work or have a source of income that we can share. If you don't work or earn an income then you can be my housewife although it will be financially more difficult for us that way.

I prefer to not ever have any children at all, but I am open to compromising on this preference if we can agree to not have children for at least the first 3 to 5 years of marriage.

Because it is a long difficult bureaucratic Red tape process to apply for any kind of visa (with visa acceptance not being 100% guaranteed and the chance that visa application may get rejected), I would prefer that you already have British or Irish citizenship or at least the right to live in the United Kingdom with your own visa. I will not accept anyone who currently lives outside the UK or western Europe.

Last but not least, I would prefer (although this is not essential) that either you don't have a family that you're in active contact with (for example if you're an orphan or if your family disowned you or kicked you out) or if you are slightly socially distant or estranged from your family. I can explain why (along with my other worldviews) if you message me, although I am also open to compromising on this preference.

If you are interested please do message me, as I prefer that you make the first move. If I don't respond to you soon it means sorry I'm not really interested.

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
India
Willing to Relocate?
None
I am Looking to Marry
Next year
My Income
Prefer not to say
Marital Status
Never married
Would I like to have Children?
No
Do I have children?
No
My Living Arrangements?
I Live Alone
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
East Sussex
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.73m (5' 8")
My Build
Medium
My Hair Colour
Black
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Masters degree
Subject I Studied
Engineering
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Other
Work
My Profession
Health Care Professional
My Job Title
dental assistant
Religion
Religiousness
Religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
Prefer not to say
Beard
Yes
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Always