A Little Bit About Me
I am 55, easy going, generous, caring, youthful, energetic, positive, passionate and a romantic.
For those of you who are interested, I am a GEMINI.
I am not photogenic but I would describe myself as handsome, much better to look at in the flesh 😉.
My faith is very important to me and Inshallah I am guided by the light of Islam 😇. My Iman is strong and I have extensive knowledge of Islam. I understand the essance of my faith, but I am not an innocent and know how the world works, balance between the DEEN and the DUNYA is very important. You can be strong and just, without being ruthless; kindness and humbleness is at the core of my soul.
I absolutely hate waste, to be wasteful is to be ungratful to ALLAH-SWT for his belessings. I value time and use my time constructively, I am punctual and expect others to be punctual.
Health and fitness is very important to me, I work out regularly, I have excellant genes. I work hard, and have earned my place in life, ALLAH-SWT has blessed me with so much. No one achieves anything without ALLAH's blessing. I have 3 grown up girls, strong, independant and beautiful, I am immensely proud of them and they are my world.
There are things that seperates the men from the boys and I take my responsabilities very seriously, and challanges head on. I am very sure of myself and what I am capable of, I am driven and very determined. When I set my sights on something, there is no stoping me.
Money matters and enables me to do things for my loved ones. I am not materialistic, I value people and relationships. But I understand the power of money and what it can do, let's not be naive, money can bring you hapiness as long a it doesn't control you !
I like to help people when I can, the state of the world and what's happening around me, matters to me. I love long walks, especially in the rain, it helps me think. I would like to travel but haven't found the right person to do it with. I have a wide range of interets, and am very skilled at DIY, I love cinema, movies, theatre, music, art, restaurants, technology, languages, cafe's.
I work in IT, I love what I do, and am paid very well. I have an engineer's mind, my speciality is problem solving.
I am a deep thinker, a bit intense sometimes ! and can see into the depths of issues and people.
I actually believe, the eyes are the windows to the soul, but you have to know what to look for and be sincere. I am a bit of a poet at heart, no problem expressing my feelings, in words or actions.
I see a relationship as a living thing that binds two people together. Although a relationship can be effortless, the relationship still needs nurturing. I absolutly hate complacency and taking your partner for granted, a big NO-NO.
I don't like texting and prefer meeting, you can't substitute a good conversation over cha-sha, samosa and barfi. I will answer any question truthfully and will privde context to understand my answer.
If you're intrigued come meet me, you won't be disappointed !
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What I Am Looking For
I have seen many profiles with blured out pictures, some have requested access to my private pictures without sharing their main picture. If you are one of these women DON'T contact me.
I am looking for my QUEEN, my best Friend, my Lover, my Advisor, my Partner and Inshallah my future Wife.
A partner, a woman that will love me without reservation. She has to be independant, youthful and looks after herself, as she needs to keep up with me, I am sure you know what I mean. Preferably I am looking for someone younger than myself.
Although physical attraction is important, there is more to a person than their looks, and that spark, that chemistry is what binds people and keeps them atracted to each other.
If you are divorced like me, you probably have children, this is expected, but I don't want more kids. Been there, Done that !
Not a necessity but I would prefer a divorced woman as she will understand relationship dynamic, have emotiolnal maturity, and understand the challanges life can bring.
Being independant you may value your space and want a bit of time for yourself, which I understand, hence I am willing to consider a Living out relationship (LAT).
She will need to pull her weight but if you are in a less than fortunate situation, I will be there to support you, just know I am not a meal ticket or cash machine. Been there, Done that too !
Communication is key for a healthy relationship, love, respect, hounesty and trust is the foundation that will keep the relationship together, through thick and thin.
My partner need to support me specially when the going gets tough, and it will get tough, life isn't a bed of roses.
Trust is so important and makes the relationship strong, but at the same time so fragile is trust. Love creates trust and trust strengthens love.
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