A Little Bit About Me
Salaam,
I was born and bred in Indonesia-one of the biggest muslim country, integrated with vary of cultures, religions and cuisines variety (spicy, sweet, light, you name it :D).
Next to the Deen, family is really important to me. My parents aspired me for what hard work, passion, and team work are look like. Their blessing and happiness are always be my concern.
In my spare time, i like to watch some YouTube videos like cooking (come on, we all love food, right? :P), language courses (keep up my basic Deutsch and French, ouais c'est vrai :P) and also watch Islamic lectures. In the evening, I often playing badminton with my brother (and cook dinner together afterwards as our reward of hard-work :P)
I'm a kind of ambivert and homebody person, yet really enjoy nature (a lot) and hanging out with my friends sometimes. They describe me as a fun, easy going, honest, caring (do you know that forever single friend who being asked for some life, religion and relationship advices, uh huh you see one of them now) and luckily had genes for sense of humor (mostly from my dad :P) which lead us to share silly jokes anytime we talk.
I loove playing with kids, and the way my parents shower us the love of family, it shaped me to become a family-oriented person. Somehow i believe it's nothing to do with what so-called the gender role, rather it's like a passion (call) which we enjoy doing it with love. Insya Allah when Allah granted us kids, i expect that we both can build and have special bond with them, not only as the biological (cool) parents, but also teacher and their best friends to do and share everything with.
After i graduated, i help my parents around the house and also in our small family businessess. I'm in the time that my family allow me to complete half of my deen, yet now i feel ready and confident to take that responsibility.
If our profiles match and you believe that there is a compatibility or simply you have some questions to assure, i'd like to invite you to reach out to me (promise i won't bite 😂)
Barakallahufik, may Allah ease all of us in our search for a spouse to walk together to Jannah. Aamiin 😊
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What I Am Looking For
- I believe that someone's relationship with Allah swt. is personal. For me, I'm looking for a man who fears Allah swt., practicing (obviously the 5 pilars included) and learning about Islam, Al-Qur'an and Hadits. So we can have the same vision and foundation to make Islam as our way to think and to do in life. Having strong faith in Allah swt.
- A simple, educated and caring man. Dunya is temporary, but it doesn't mean we don't do anything or do things only for ourself. I believe we are as a Muslim be in this world for bigger purposes. Helping people around us, be benefit for our family, community and the ummah.
- A patient, respectful and family-oriented man. Of course, fun lovely things is on top of the relationship package, but we also have to be ready for the tests, disagreements, sacrifices, and problems wait ahead. I'm looking for a man that emotionally mature, patient, know how to control his emotion during ups and downs of situation. Insya Allah you can also expect the same from me. I do appreciate hardwork, but i don't prefer workaholic, cause your family will also need your presence.
- A man that is not only be my imam and husband, but also a best friend and a teammate to grow and share everything with, (Including our jokes, weird dances?, stories, flaws, and of course, foods :P) (and since your family will be my family and mine will be your family too, sharing family is also count, yeay team doubled-up :P). Yup, none of us are perfect and the criteria as i mention above may sound too idealistic, but the ultimate goal is constantly seek mutual improvement both the Deen and the Dunya, Insya Allah. I hope that we both can helping, completing, supporting each other in this lifetime journey and willing to work our very best for make it to entering Jannatul Firdaus together, Aamiin 😊
May Allah swt. ease us to meet the one 😊
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