Sofrigginghard

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Social Networking Is Not What Im Here For!

Sofrigginghard
My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Somewhat religious
My Profession
Computing/IT
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
Strathclyde
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner

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A Little Bit About Me
Firstly anyone that stereotypes I am divorced with very grown up independent kids. One is married one and one off to university blah blah blah.

Why’s it so difficult here for divorced woman ? Sick of this long winded road to nowhere in my search for a life-partner.

I am a person who lives by ambitions, being surrounded by work and cushioned by family and close friends. I am choosy about the people I associate with, and so have a small number of good friends.Someone once gave me a saying if you can count all the closest people on one hand then that is more than enough to see life through to the end with them..
The people close to me are my links to the world and matter a lot to me.

Apart from being a simple and honest person at my natural best, I am also somewhat dynamic by nature, revealing my true self only gradually and with time. Like most easy-going people, I hold simple values, which are dear to me.

On the social side, I do enjoy being surrounded by people, and like to be in a crowd as long as I can keep my distance, which I mostly achieve by presenting an amicable-yet-indifferent exterior towards the people I meet. I am overall a helpful and co-operative person, as long as I have my own space to do what I like.


I love to travel. I have travelled around 25 destinations some multiple times. My long term goal and dream ambition would be to leave Britian for a some warm sunny climate before the chill blains old age arthritis kick in. LOL
i find the warm temperature has a calming and happy effect to ones mood, certainly no sad depressive syndrome. I believe that although britain and my home town is home as well as my roots. I dont belong here. other than social security high taxes and a failing NHs what does it offer??

I love to dare to be different. modest yet i do value my religion and culture values altho am in the latest of fashion trends and wear both with respect to my religion.


I am a friendly loving person with a lot of time for the people I adore!
If you have tried forever then let’s aiming at forever and a day! inshallah!

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What I Am Looking For
Is there such a thing as an ideal partner. i read many profiles with preferences of companionship, friendship soulmate all-in-one. to myself the root of any relationship is friendship. there a saying friends are forever men are wherever! LOL. Now tell me please why waste years and years looking for 110%. In my opinion it doesn't exist, there is no Mr & Mrs perfect. I mean look around you how many ecstatic in love couples can you count on one hand.


I would like to meet someone with al ot of get-up and go. spontaneous and full of jumping beans. Not interested in day to day rat race of life. I would like to plan nice things together as a couple rather than worry about the mortgage/bills AND DAILY RIGMA. (although i is still nice to watch a good film on the sofa). Someone ideally who has also done the I have had the kids bit- now its me time!
Certainly not wanting any extension of bambinos so unless there are single muslim men who either missed the boat on that one(over 43 need not apply). Which again is a rarity, as most are drawn towards a breeding factory. I do agree on increasing the ummah but for me its not my personal choice.



my partner does not have to look like brad pitt (wouldn"t say no if you do). Ok im not fussy but i do have a few select preferences such as i like a man with hair and nice teeth. A photo is important to me 2 reasons. Once i spoke to a potential for 6 weeks without see-ing a picture only to be so distraught when we met up. My world collapsed the second i saw him so for that reason alone and as i believe first impression is a lasting impression. as long as you are pleasing to my eyes who cares what others think?



The "someone special" in my life would be someone who would share similar values as I, though not necessarily similar interests. He would be a person with whom ideas, ideals, dreams, and thoughts could be shared, new avenues explored, and interests cultivated, while also pursuing a life outside the relationship. All in all, a well-rounded yet multi-faceted person to meet my personality, who is also secure enough in himself to allow me the space I occasionally need.
Looking for a nice gentelman of the world(but ak acha insan)
So, if you feel that "we" may be compatible, I look forward to hearing from you.

i welcome muslim converts my opinion that is very strong as majority who embrace islam are far more pious to those who have been born into it.

Please only make contact if you will show your picture. I will do likewise. Again I must emphasis I am burnt out with the chase on this one part of my life. Im not in it for games, a lifetime would be ideal.

my final words lets see what destiny brings

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
United Kingdom
Willing to Relocate?
Internationally
I am Looking to Marry
As soon as possible
My Income
over 50,000
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
No
Do I have children?
Yes
My Living Arrangements?
Other
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
Strathclyde
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.68m (5' 6")
My Build
Medium
My Hair Colour
Black
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
College
Subject I Studied
business
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Punjabi
Work
My Profession
Computing/IT
My Job Title
it marketing
Religion
Religiousness
Somewhat religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
No
Beard
No
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Always