A Little Bit About Me
Hi, Assallamualaikum, peace to everyone
I am caring, considerate, friendly, romantic, I am intending on conversing with someone with the intention, thought and purpose being marriage, I am of the thought that the kind of young woman that may be compatible with myself is someone who is affectionate, caring, confident, friendly, thoughtful, playful
I am a caring, kind, loving, individual in search of a potential young woman who shares these principles and values within herself too
A woman who has the above attributes is something I feel that is necessary for her and I so that we could establish and build a caring, loving, peaceful, understanding relationship with one another
I consider myself to be affectionate, caring, easy-going, thoughtful, I am at a stage whereby I am keen to find a young woman with who I feel I can establish a connection, have a laugh, go out with one another, travel, and hopefully share a blissful wedded life with her Insha’Allah
Hobbies/Interests
Bowling, Cinema, Driving, Football (Follow Arsenal) Health & Fitness, Netflix/Television, Shopping, Tennis, Travel
I have a keen interest in travelling and so far have visited the following, I would love to continue to travel with my potential partner to be, should she share an interest and like to travel too, so far travelled to the countries written below
Canada
Egypt
India
Kenya
Malaysia
Morocco
Palestine
Saudi Arabia
Turkey
United Arab Emirates
United States
I listen to a few Muslim Speakers
Ustadh Asim Khan
Nouman Ali Khan
Mufti Menk
I pray regularly, any prayers missed unintentionally tend to pray as soon as possibe, I can lead you in prayer, therefore this could be an added extra for you Insha’Allah
I have never entered into any form of a relationship outside of marriage
I am open to accepting someone who is not fully practising at present in terms of her practice of the religion as in my opinion this is not something that defines a individual, everyones level of practice of the religion is different, therefore this is something to be respected, it is good to encourage and support your partner in their practise as this is what will bring them closer to the religion encouragement and support is what she may need for her to be more self-aware
I am a non agumentitive individual, if a disagreement was to arise between us, my preference would be to avoid matters of conflict and disagreement as disagreements never have a positive outcome, we should stay away from agumentation and conflict as anger is from shaitan
marriage is about affection, care, love, and respect, it is the beginning of a new chapter in their lives for two individuals, it takes time for the two of you to get to know one another properly, it is not something that happens overnight, we need to understand that we are two now, partners therefore it is about care, love, respect and understanding, remember shaitaans promise to God “I will not stop until I have caused chaos and corruption in the land among families and married couples, I will cause disunity, this is my promise, I will not rest until I am successful, therefore if we know that this is shaitaans promise to the creator, it is us who should be wiser in our attitude and behaviour when conversing with one another
The institution of marriage is encouraged in islam as it safeguards you morally, socially, and physically, it enables two individuals to attain contentment and fulfillment in a way that the religion permits once two individuals have committed themselves to one another upon signing the marriage contract
“The best of you are those of you who are the best in behaviour to their women”
Sunan Tirmidhi 11:62
“Among his signs is that he created for you spouses for you from among yourselves, so that the two of you may be a source of peace and tranquility for one another, he has placed affection and mercy between the two of you, so that the two of you may be a source of comfort and peace for one another, surely this is a sign for those of you whom reflect”
Surah Ar Rum 30:21
Men are caretakers and providers for women because men have been given a position of autority to maintain and support their women
Surah Nisa 4:34
Men and women are not to converse with one another unless there is a valid reason, it prevents two individuals from developing feelings that could result in behaving in a unbefitting manner, communication between the two should only take place if there is a valid reason, if communcation is taking place, the conversation should be professional and purposeful
Surah Al-Ahzaab 33:32
Tell the believing men and women to lower their gaze and guard their modesty, this is purer for them, surely Allah is aware of everything
Surah An-Nur 30:31
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What I Am Looking For
I am intending on conversing with someone, intention and purpose for conversing is intended for communication to lead onto potential meetings and marriage Insha’Allah
I have not really got a set criteria as to what I want in a potential partner, I suppose I am interested in being with someone who is affectionate, caring, kind, romantic, somewhat talkative as I am not very talkative, someone who may have similar interests, I am not at all looking to find someone for marriage for her to cook, this is not my intention and never will be, because for me personally there is more to a woman/women then her being available to cook for you, to me this is a very shallow way of thinking, it is more of the fact that one is supposed to marry so that one can safeguard oneself within society, this is the main purpose for intending to get married, marriage is a moral and legal safeguard, this is the reason why one should marry according to the religion
The institution of marriage is encouraged in islam as it safeguards you morally, socially, and physically, it enables two individuals to attain contentment and fulfillment in a way that the religion permits once two individuals have committed themselves to one another upon signing the marriage contract
I believe in adhering to etiquettes of behaving and treating women with kindness and respect, this a basic etiquette and principle when communicating or conversing with women
“The best of you are those of you who are the best in behaviour to their women”
Sunan Tirmidhi 11:62
“Among his signs is that he created for you spouses for you from among yourselves, so that the two of you may be a source of peace and tranquility for one another, he has placed affection and mercy between the two of you, so that the two of you may be a source of comfort and peace for one another, surely this is a sign for those of you whom reflect”
Surah Ar Rum 30:21
Men are caretakers and providers for women because men have been given a position of autority to maintain and support their women
Surah Nisa 4:34
Men and women are not to converse with one another unless there is a valid reason, it prevents two individuals from developing feelings that could result in behaving in a unbefitting manner, communication between the two should only take place if there is a valid reason, if communcation is taking place, the conversation should be professional and purposeful
Surah Al-Ahzaab 33:32
Tell the believing men and women to lower their gaze and guard their modesty, this is purer for them, surely Allah is aware of everything
Surah An-Nur 30:31
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