Salaam

Salamtoall9
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My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Religious
My Profession
Education
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
Greater London
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner
A Little Bit About Me
I really don't believe that it's possible to describe own self by writing few words..... And when someone tries to describe, usually he/she tends to avoid negative sides of own personality or character {something normal, not an offence :-)}. Another thing is people react or behave differently at different circumstances, so if I write that I'm very patient, compromising and calm person, it might be wrong as I also loose my temper in some situations when things are too much for me. (Though it's not usual or in most cases). Again another thing is that in life we play so many roles, each and every role is distinct and different. So someone could be excellent as a brother, son or friend, but the same person could be the worst husband. Same way someone could be the best husband who wasn't that good as a brother, son or friend. The same rule is applicable for girls as well. That's why I think it's useless to describe myself here in words, as we can't tell how a person is going to handle a situation or a relation until he/she is going to face the real situation /relation.

Still I think I can say some of my core values and characters about which I'm confident. I'm honest. Sincere, compromising, caring, hate hypocrisy and very simple. on the other side of the coin... I'm not too ambitious, too simple, little bit foolish, tend to trust people very easily, sometimes people think that I'm rude as I say things straight on their face... (because I really hate saying things in absence, also I believe that things might get worse for a time being by telling them directly, but in the long run it is always better as it always helps to avoid many future complications).

There are few contrasts in my personality- 1#I am very practical again extremely emotional... 2# I am too matured but there is an inner child 3# I am extreme Flexible and Compromising about everyone and everything but Too stubborn and strict about my ethics, values and beliefs.

And I believe in 4 principles 1. Action is louder than words 2. What goes round that comes around. (Karma). 3. Treat others the way you want to be treated yourself. .4. Survival of the Fittest.....(Darwin's theory)

And lastly the most rare quality I have -I am very good with Money and has no interest for shopping (actually my friends told me that they have doubts if I am a real woman.... )
I am very conscious about my rights as a human being (rather a woman), my self-respect and dignity and I want someone who would consider me as a Human being first rather a Woman. But again I don't agree with some Modern women who are ashamed about Being Considered Different as a Woman... I believe though I am a Human, but I can't deny that I am a woman and there is nothing wrong to accept that I am different in some aspects from a man... and I have some responsibilities as a Woman or a Mother or a Wife which I should give priority as the Nature/God has decided and made the rule and our Roles; and that's why it created those differences between Man and Woman. I believe None of them are superior or inferior to the other, each has own positive and negative qualities and the Nature/God has created us thus to complement each other to make the life complete and happy.

For me there are few basic things which must be there in a relationship, actually I believe 4 things are MUST- Love, Respect, Trust and Honesty... and to be happy in life we need to be compromising and sensitive regarding others feelings, needs and rights. (Applicable for both... each should be considerate about the other one.... )

One thing I want to mention is to me right now the most important thing and most important person is my son, who is the best thing could happen to anyone. And I want someone who is ready to love him as his own child, if you're not ready for this, then I think it will be wise not to try anything

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What I Am Looking For
The man has to have few basic qualities, Honest, caring, not too extrovert or ultra-modern, again not too backward. He must be a follower of Islam but Not extremist about religion... (I am the same; I strictly believe in Islam and always be away from all Haram. But I don't bring Islam in each and every thing of life. My policy is leading a pure and honest life is better than Constant Nafl prayers; so I don't need to be fasting whole life or recite Dua for every single step to please Allah, rather by practicing good deeds, I can do that. I know I need to improve in 2 sects.1# I am not very regular about Salah, but I am trying to improve.2# I don't wear Hizab, though I always wear decent cloths, and I don't think I am going to be strong enough to continue wearing Hizab ever, as I did try in past .


He has to be educated and self-established (because I believe Education is one of the most important elements that shapes one's personality and way of thinking and I want my partner to be superior to me in every aspect :-). He has to be ready to take responsibilities and carry on his own responsibilities. He should be emotional and romantic as well with me. He has to be understanding and compromising ...not dominating or with ego problems, or someone who considers women are inferior to men.


I want someone who will feel himself lucky to have me in his life (as I am sure I will be doing the same about him), will appreciate me for what I am and give me space for myself because by nature I was too homely/family oriented and I have been told by others that I need to have little space and time for myself as well, but I think I am going to be the same rest of my life unless I am pushed to do otherwise by my partner.

I love travelling and fine things in life (not expensive...), it would be great but not must if he also possess the same interest. But most importantly, I hate Flirt nature men and people who are very light nature. I love fun but the man needs to have Intellectual substances as well.

I would prefer to work ...but I want a man who is ready to take the responsibility of his family, won't depend on the partner, I want to continue a career for myself, as I feel it provides confidence and freedom, it's nice to have own independent identity and security, which in turn makes a woman self-confident and stronger .....

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
Bangladesh
Willing to Relocate?
Locally
I am Looking to Marry
As soon as possible
My Income
Prefer not to say
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
Yes
Do I have children?
Yes
My Living Arrangements?
I Live Alone
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
Greater London
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.68m (5' 6")
My Build
Large
My Hair Colour
Black
Colour of My Eyes
Other
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Masters degree
Subject I Studied
Biology
Language
My First Language
Bengali
My Second Language
English
Work
My Profession
Education
My Job Title
Supervisor
Religion
Religiousness
Religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
No
Beard
Prefer not to say
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Sometimes