A Little Bit About Me
Assalamualaykum Wa rahmatullah wa barakatu,
N/B How would you feel if someone request your photo without introducing himself or a saying the simple Salam?
the funny part is that we are all saying , " we are caring, good muslim, polite" ect ect, but we cannot even prove this by our action....
Your request would be rejected if you do so
Thank you for stopping here to view my profile.. People often ask why I still want to get married, my answer is always, I value the concept of marriage in islam , Marriage involves a lot of commitments. It is not like buying a new bags ( I like bags lol) and exchange it if you don't like it. Your husband or wife should be your choice.
The marriage also involves been mature enough to understand the difficulties that come alone with so that the union can last long. Through marriage families are established so I can say the marriage is social necessity. Besides, marriage is the only legitimate or halal way of in intimacy between men and women.
Nothing has meaning except what we give it to ourselves.' With respect to life, everything we strive towards in this life is extremely agreeable shared, shared with that special someone, that special someone being one's life partner. Hence my reason for being here.
I must be honest, life has thrown a lot of downfalls at me, and however my faith has kept me mentally strong. I learnt a great deal over the years which have helped me to mature and be the person I am today and I started practicing my religion seriously since 2004
well well well, how can I describe my serf? It is so difficult to express myself in such a way by writing few sentences., I can be described as energetic, lively yet focus and have clear goals for myself and my children, simple, down to earth, caring , warm and bubbly personality...
My dynamism and my good sense of humour, open and lively personality, have made me sociable I am a good listener and know how to manage people under stress. I am able to multi-task. Cleanliness and hygiene are also very as important to me. One of the things I am definitely known for is my passion for house decoration, home design, my culinary talent and hosting guests.
I am currently studying as a nurse,
I am mother of five and grandma al hanmdulillah, but I live with my twins and 3 other living away, I have come to a stage where I am ready to build a relationship and continue my life as a supportive and caring wife to a trustworthy muslim man.
I Have performed both Umrah and Haj and would to do it again, but this time with my husband inshaAllah
In my free time, I enjoy listening to Quran by Sheikh Abu Bakr Ash Shatri , Sheikh Abdul Rahmam Soudais and french Quran. I also enjoy playing with my children, going to the park or cinema to watch cartoon. I also like watching science program, real life movies and football...
Like any humans being, I have things to improve on, increase my knowledge of Islam, be more patient... I'm looking for a partner that can help achieve this, and for me to loyally support him in the challenges he may face.
What am I looking for?
I am looking for someone humble , no materialist ..someone who has positive attitude. Looking for a Husband who wants to become a better Muslim himself and also willing to help his wife alongside. It becomes much easier if both partners share the same goals and aspirations. Therefore seeking a husband who is able to remind, advise me and support and I assure the same in return Inshallah.
Every woman who seeks marriage in Islam should be aware that they are seeking a person to not only be a husband, friend, lover, partner, and all those good things; but you are seeking someone to be the imam of your home and family. Of course you want him to be a kind, generous, patient, good nature, healthy, attractive (to you), and God –fearing husband and Imam. But are you ready to give him back what you are request from him? inshaAllah yes, I am so much ready give him back all...
Everybody is beautiful , but we cannot start having feeling for everybody out here because they are looking beautiful or handsome ....
but I am looking for the one , I will be attractive to... vice versa....attraction and attitude are the key of love... for me there are difference between beauty and attraction ...
..we have to be honest with our-serf and about what we are writing , I came across some brothers profile and they said “ I don’t care for the look, is the inter beauty I am looking for” the communication went well with some of them, but once they have access to your pictures, they took marathon without notice...
seriously who are you expect to see behind my gallery, i am sorry i am not a top model or kim kardashian, Rihanna or behonce, i am who i am and happy the way i am...
some of them will be very rude and block you.....who cares?
Yes i believe the physic is important but no essential...and the chemistry must develop along as two potentials are communicating
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What I Am Looking For
I am looking for the most strong man...who is that t person? The most stronger man is not the one who can lift the most heavy weight but his the one who is able to kick out the blanket in the morning for Fajr…that is the way I would like my husband to be inshAllah
I want the husband who will Make me feel secure, don’t threaten me with divorce for any single misunderstanding,
I would like someone who can pray sincerely and treat me gently, like a fragile vessel.
I would like someone who can advise me in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere and not shout at me in public. someone with great sense of humour who will put smile on my face.....Someone with whom I can communicate, for us to work hard in learning about each other, understanding each other and raise righteous and bright children. I don't mind someone who already has children, that will just make more siblings for my little ones and more kids for me to love. :)
A friend, a mature and responsible man with whom I will strive to become a better muslimah.
Someone who knows what he wants in life, where he wants to be tomorrow, who would take the time to search for his goals for this life and the Hereafter. Someone who is not in burning rush to get married right today or tomorrow, but is ready to settle down when things are possible.
I just want someone that is God fearing, who is sincere in looking for a wife, a wife that he will respect, honour, love and support. No one is perfect, but a honest friend and father figure for my kids is all I'm looking for.
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