Rahmanz

This is for future wifey😙
Your Mother in law is Pathan (persian origin) & father in law is Mughal (turkic origin) their ancestors settled in Sultanate of Bengal also use to be known paradise of nations in 14th century & then became Mughal bengal then India then East Pakistan & current day Bangladesh, there after in late 70's your in laws migrated to UAE (Dubai) arab desert turned into so called rich advanced city within a span of 47 years. Conclusion, materialistic things are volatile & sacred lifelong decisions made based on materialistic things are volatile in nature so are materialistic people, stay safe 😂
What does being family oriented means?
-Being family as privilege exploiter.
Or
-Caring and being with family in whatever way possible without any materialistic expectations.
I am the second one but havent come across any female for marriage with similar mindset with confirmation yet.
I am a multilingual person but I think I feel more comfortable speaking urdu/hindi.
Man of few words and more of actions according to my family friends and colleagues but I do write alot 😂. Who I am in general daily life?
I am a well educated DIY homebody modest living person, do have a bed but dont know why I find the couch more comfortable to sleep on. But aint a couch potato lol, I do work out and go out sometimes but prefer to stay home more often after work.
Been working on numerous professions since 19 years old and still continuing.
Grew up in UAE and been living in melbourne Australia since 2003. Its a nice multicultural place, mix of old and modern, not too fast not too slow just like myself. But I dont mind moving countries if its really important for my better half. My parents live in UAE and my siblings live in UK, UAE and Oman and I watch lots of movies, wish there was a PHD in watching movies. And love to eat alot and try different cuisines, I can binge on Nihari naan salad combo and burgers anytime 😛. Well thats just happy go lucky simple how I am. One thing i cant do and its embedded in me, i just personally dont feel comfortable borrowing money, if i dont have it, i will reduce my expenses or try to earn more but never borrow to use for personal expenses ever, its like avoiding pig meat for me...yuck!!!
Curious people who keep asking why I havent got married yet? Long story short, a two faced girl approached me winning my trust, made me wait 6 years & then revealed her true colors of being disloyal golddigger rather than potential wife. Hopefully Allah give her hidayat and change for good. And no I wasnt stupid, just wasnt insecure & provided chances again & again considering she was going to be a family member oneday. As I treasure any kind of non-materialistic relationship whether it be family or friends or even a nobody. I am still not insecure have faith hence I am back on the market again, keeping doors open for that one true loyal future family member both conventional and unconventional way but this time no long waiting period 😂. I have written well enough about myself to have a positive idea what kind jolly person I am i guess 😁. Anything else just be straightforward and ask. Good luck

Looking for a life partner who would happily selflessly spend all the estimate wedding expenses including mehr (if any) in the auspicious month of wedding to feed maximum number of actual poor and needy souls, quench their thirst first and marry for better cause 😇😙

( Note for specific type of people : Beside just an organic person/family, if materialistic things motivates you to stay loyal and consider starting any kind love relationship including marriage with someone. Consider yourself rejected from this profile. Hope you understand and know what kind of people both male/female alike get into any kind of relationship with anyone or everyone whenever motivated by materialistic things . Some people do it for minutes, some for hours, some for years and some for lifetime, overall same pathetic corrupted mentality. Rant over !😅 )

Without being judgemental with all due respect, I believe the sole primary purpose of marriage between 2 person and families, is for becoming eachothers family for lifetime in sorrows and happiness alike & work things out to live in harmony like what we mostly tend do towards parents, kids, siblings when times are easy or tough. Rest of the worldly purpose are secondary and shouldnt be a important reason for marriage or divorce. If you believe the same then we might be a potential match to commit to a lifetime marriage without making joke of institution of marriage.
Just a reminder, this space is for finding future family member, so kindly interact in a potential future family member point of view. I understand many people talk about finding a friend for life etc etc...but first kindly become a loyal committed family & within that family circle can always accomodate all the gf bf bff fantasies, keep dating eachother entire life 😘
And seriously not looking for any educated ignorant illiterates ( padhe likay gawar 😂) or brats who expect guy to be some kinda cash cow with value added commodity which inflates and deflates. Some girls seriously dont make any common sense. They want the guy to be nearly of there own age and expect the guy to have life experience patience wealth level of there own respective fathers age or more. And these girls themselves are nowhere near to the commonsense nature of there own respective mother's age 😂. As a result mostly divorce after marriage.
The main thing I am seeking is good akhlaq in a person. So if you dont have good Akhlaq then work on achieving it before marriage Inshallah. Kindly no mind games or manipulative communication, its easily detectable & not appreciated by both female male alike, being silly & having fun during convo is not an issue 😁
I believe human is not a commodity to be rated or measured by any kind of materialistic things in regards to marriage, if it is then they can never truely become family & certainly dont appreciate humans who are privilege exploiters. Moderation with considerate attitude is fair enough if really in need of using privileges.
I am single never married modest living guy but if you are anulled/divorced, unfortunately been through a bad marriage even though everything ticked right before marriage according to you and your family & spent a fortune on wedding to show off. I dont mind at all if you are in such situation, you are still a human. But the reason for divorce from your side should not be because of any materialistic desires, greed or ego or personal differences or lifestyles issues. If it is than you wouldnt have got married in the first place & dont want or need a husband in the form of a family. You just want something else in the name of marriage and will repeat the same things again, thats living a lie & I cant do that and dont want to be part of it. And if your ex honestly did not treat you fairly in humanitarian manner & had extra marital affairs, not being loyal to you, than those are valid reasons for divorce.
I have got a headche free independent chilled life. I m in peace and content Alhamdulillah. Would like to marry someone mainly to have a life companion & peacefully grow old together. Thats it very basic essence of marriage. Rest doesnt make any difference to me. Kept it very simple.
I wish to get married for right reasons, doesnt matter my future wife belongs multiple countries or cultures (remember Adam & Hawa & how we all are related? Its not fiction right? Nice) , it doesnt even matter if she doesnt even have any ambition...spends whole day at home..doesnt know even how to cook...cannot read or write...cant drive etc...but she treats people animal with humbleness humanity fairly with love care respect & does not exploit privileges. I can spend whole life with such kind of person. As i myself like to treat others like that.
Looking for a down to earth easy going modest similar mindset, humble person without any ego issues who wants to get married & grow old together as family. My idea of marriage is very simple. If two person like eachother than inform the necessary family members -Book a marriage celebrant complete the formalities & with consent of wifey, spend all the total estimated wedding expenses including Mahr to feed/donate to the poor/needy in person together. All the relatives/ friends can be invited to participate &volunteer to help with cooking & facilitate the event like a big iftar party in multiple places if required. And then start living together, build the marriage life brick by brick. Wouldn't mind going on backpacking world tour & experience the earth and how people live in different cultures & soceities immediately right after marriage, travelling each continent on a caravan or car whichever is affordable thats if my better half is physically capable & wants to experience it as well. After returning from world tour, we must have learnt alot of things about eachother & then we can book a reception invite the required family and friends & share the experience.