A Little Bit About Me
Assalammu’alaikum brother in Islam,
My name is V; was born and raised in Indonesia. I have never been married (but I would like to), practicing Muslima, and in good health. Islam is central to my life, guiding me in all things, including my pursuit of marriage. I am in good health, highly educated, and ready to start a meaningful journey with a like-minded partner, in your country.
I am looking for a serious relationship leading to marriage. Marriage is the highway to Jannah/heaven. Therefore, at this stage of life and age, I am searching for a Muslim/Mu’min man, practicing, and having the vision and mission to get to Jannah on the last day.
Our Prophet (PBUH) said, “Whoever marries has achieved one-half of one’s religion”. This hadith has awakened my senses and made me serious about marriage and looking to marry for the sake of Allaah and our Deen and fighting for the other half by fearing Allaah. Hence, here I am looking for one, and In sya Allaah don’t want to delay again. The prophet has also said, “Marriage is my tradition, whoever keeps away from it is not from amongst me”. Marriage serves as a means of emotional and sexual gratification and as a means of tension reduction. Marriage is also a form of IBADAH because it is obeying Allaah and his messenger. This is why I am serious about getting married.
Islam teaches us that choosing a life partner should NEVER BE BASED on love. LOVE IS NOT THE BASIS FOR GETTING MARRIED! Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come, In sya Allaah. Let me say it again: “You can’t build a lifetime relationship on love alone”. You need a lot more!
I am a serious person, so I need to know if you are also serious, so as not to waste our time. Therefore, I expect you to be willing to video chat if you are interested in getting to know me. Please be prepared to do this after the initial introduction.
A little bit about me:
A kind person who is far from perfect but trying to better myself one day at a time. I try to be the best version of myself. We all have flaws, but the most important thing is to “recognize the rip and try to fix it before it hits the fan”.
• I am a practicing Muslima, and in sya Allaah I am working on Salah, Zakat, Fasting, Umrah (and hope to be able to perform the Hajj).
• I have fair looks, a slim shape & petite build, wear hijab, modest with high moral values.
• Even though I am a serious person, I have a GSOH! Not at all Miss Perfect, I care about how others feel, am caring, a good listener, think things through, and considerate.
• I like to have fun. Yes, I said fun, as long as it doesn't go outside the boundaries of Islam. So, do Muslims have fun? Yes, except for those who don't want to.
What I'm doing with my life:
• I value a healthy, clean lifestyle —no drinking, smoking, or tattooing— and I CAN'T BE AROUND SMOKER/S! During Ramadan, I find peace in Taraweeh and sometimes Fajr prayers at the masjid.
Speaking about me mentally/emotionally, I think I am confident but not arrogant, easygoing and not fussy, calm and adaptable, an attentive listener, and an assertive responder. I don't have time for scammers, people who are not sure what they want or are just killing time.
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What I Am Looking For
Seeking a devout, loyal, and honest partner
In sya Allaah, I am searching for a serious, committed Muslim man with strong values, a positive outlook, and a balanced approach to life and faith.
I respect that no one is perfect, but I admire Muslim men who uphold integrity, loyalty, and honesty. Here’s what I am looking for:
A Practicing Muslim: A Sunni Muslim who faithfully follows the Qur'an and Sunnah, performs the 5 pillars of Islam, and fears Allaah SWT. I am looking for someone who values the Deen, maintains a balance between this life and the next, and takes his role as a Muslim seriously. Character and faith matter deeply to me.
A man who keeps Allaah at the center: Someone who sincerely prays, involves Allaah in his daily life, and remains respectful and thoughtful in all he does. I prefer a widower or divorced-unattached man, aged 54-68, who does not smoke, drink, or hold extreme views. If you are married or planning to have multiple wives, I am not the right match for you.
Clear and honest communication: Clear, recent photos are essential, as honesty and transparency are priorities for me. Please, no fake photos; be sincere in showing who you truly are. Profiles without photos or with incomplete information will be ignored, as they reflect a lack of openness. If you cannot be authentic from the start, we are not a match.
If you find my profile resonates with you, I would appreciate a sincere message. I believe a face-to-face or video call after our initial exchange helps build a genuine connection.
May Allaah SWT grant us all success in our search and guide us to the righteous path. Aamiin.
Reminder: The perfect match doesn’t exist because we’re all imperfect.
All we need is someone grateful to share the journey with.
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