A Little Bit About Me
I live in sahiwal , the location shows lahore which is wrong.
I take Quran classes 5d/w, so im a bit slow to respond. Please try to understand my boundries.
I have been in this process long enough and its mentally and emotionally exhausting
So I have the notifications off for the app
I only open it when i have the mental space for it
So this means i will eventually reply
I will not ghost
Agar ap main sabr hai, your most welcome.
Agar nahi, your free to go.
Petpeeve: deciet, bad grammer, disorganized , and takalluf
Unblurred pictures and communication is appreciated.
Emotionally unavailable men are not welcome.
Will respond in a day or two. Dont go away if you are serious.
Honesty is the deepest form of intimacy. I am here searching for a potential future best friend/ partner in crime in a husband.
If you think you are comfortable and confident enough in your own skin, to have a woke and empowered woman in your life, please proceed.
A hopeless romantic, filmy af, a moon fanatic, sci fi lover, an overthinker/ analyzer, extremely sensitive and curious. Somewhat bossy,Introvert, chai addict, foodie, shopaholic, straight-forward and outspoken ( have hurt many desi men’s ego successfully since 2018 lol ) curious, loving, and a whole lot of good weird .
I hate to cook but will do to survive 🥴 ( my fav emoji) , love pixar movies, city life, and intolerant to pets.
I was born on saudi land, dammam. Came to lahore for my med school and then went to live in US for studies and work. Got married in 2007, worked for a year in US, moved to toronto with ex-hub for six years. Moved back to pak in 2015, and after ten years of incompatability, filed for my khula.
My father passed away in july 2020 due to covid so living with mom now.
We are 6 sisters and 1 bro.
Graduated in 2003 from AIMC. I do not practice my profession and dont have any intentions to work in the future.
Favourite hobby is to empower women and break pakistan taboos through healthy respectful conversation and awareness.
I am infertile and unable to have children which is a blessing in disguise for me. I have no intrinsic desire for children so would not agree to adoption either.
Hope to find someone who will happily and lovingly accept as I am, confident in their own skin and aura, and walk with me rather have me behind them.
I expect utter honesty from you as well and will appreciate no fake ages.
I have been on this app long enough to experience ‘ghosting’ ( ghosting is for the weak) ,so if you wanna just vanish in thin air, or not reply, lets say good byes here.
Wrote this today:
Dear man,
I understand you have seldom come across a woman who knows her worth, who is a whole person in herself and only wants to be an equal in a marriage.
If you need a mom figure who can pamper and feed you. I cannot be that person. I will not be someone's maid either.
If you work, I will take care of the house, but we both will cook and clean as circumstances allow. My place is not just in the kitchen coz i am not defind by how gol my roti is.
I define my own boundries and make my own decisions and when in a marriage I want the same for both of us. We can be a person with each other and then in ourselves too.
I am more than willing to find solutions and adjustments for co-existing together with love, understanding and support. I want love and rehma to define our relationship. And that includes making each other's life comfortable and easy.
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