A Little Bit About Me
I'm just gonna be honest, this is my first time trying this kind of app. Never imagine that I will use it either. But yah, eventually I have to admit that this could be a way to find someone for my self.
I'm just a simple common girl coming from a faraway country, Indonesia. Spend my whole life here, but I always have a dream to live somewhere far. I mean since the day I know about my self, I realize traveling is one of my 'happiness trigger'. Not that I had been around the world that much, for another country I've only had visited Malaysia & Singapore and also Mecca and Madina when I went on Hajj, alhamdulillah.
Growing up as a teenager, I went to all-girls Islamic boarding school for my 6 high school years and took computer system major for my bachelor degree.
I would call my younger self as an 'awkward person but trying so hard to fit in society' esp when I was in college. Because that major is mostly filled by boys. And there was me trying to maintain my principle of being a good muslimah. Luckily, they understand me very well.
One thing I need to tell about this experience is I never got my self a boyfriend, never dated anyone either. And also never received any love confession. Lol. Maybe because my appearance is somehow cold and not easy to mix.
And I know that 'just dating' is not something I pursuit in life, and Allah doesn't like it.
Being an adult, I found my self not really interested in getting married early. So I spent my 20's to work and to develop some hobbies, making new experience, etc. I work back at my old school as an IT/Communication/Graphic designing person. Not that I'm an anti romantic, I love romance and drama. I like movies like Leap Year, Pride and Prejudice, Me Before You, etc, you know those kind of sweet romantic movies. And I do hope that one day I'm gonna have a beautiful love story like them. But yah, not anybody can understand this, when I keep show them my chic yet cold side. This is my first time being so open about my self btw, I hope I doesn't sound so weird.
When I was 29 yo, may dad passed away. I can say this is also a turning point for me to think about taking another step in my life, getting married. He was always wanted to see me get married and I couldn't gave him that. I have 1 older brother and 2 older sisters, and all of them already formed their own family. So my mom left with only me as her unmarried child. And so since then, I started to consider getting married as my next step in life. I started to learn what marriage is, how to be a good wife, how to be a good mom, InsyaaAllah, how to manage a family, and things like that. I learn by seing people around me, my own family, my friend, and also by reading some articles about marriage.
I hope this is good enough to prepare my self in getting married.
I'm not really good at explaining who I am, these are some general point about my self, I hope this is help. And maybe you can also get to know me by reading those paragraph above. :)
I'm an ISFJ-T
Mostly introvert, fun if needed, coming from a small town and simple family, awkward with new person, loves traveling, also loves to be at home, never dated anyone, wants to be a full time mom and wife (been in office all of my adult life), hoping to be a design freelancer, good cook, like details.
Any further things you wanna know, I'm open to some questions. :)
What I Am Looking For
Maintains his shalah and other obligatory worship, kind hearted leader, love his family, nice, loving, caring, hard worker, understand what a 'husband' is, humorous.
For physical appearance I hope he would be taller and have a bigger build than me. I'm 165 cm, 77kg.