A Little Bit About Me
I'm 52.
My pictures are all recent, 2022-24
I look a lot younger than I am & very young at heart, fit, healthy & can give most 35 year olds a run for their money!
Born, raised & live in North London.
I'm divorced, have 4 children, they live with their mother. Unfortunately they do not want to have a relationship with me & I do not see them much.....long story.
But I am open to having children.
I am the eldest of three siblings, I have a very small family here and no extended family whatsoever. All in Pakistan, therefore zero drama!
I work in public transport.
Proper night owl and definitely not a morning person, I never work mornings & haven't done so for over 20 years, I just don't function well in the morning!
Alhamdulillah Allah has given me the opportunities & the ability to take care of my responsibilities enabling me to have a stable life.
Not here to mess about, to look for a friend or to long things out. Just need to honestly talk about what you're looking for & hopefully if there is compatibility there then things can move forward.
I'm a pretty simple person really, not materialistic & quite content with the simple things in life.
Like doing all the usual things, if & when I can.
I can be a bit of a homebody just like to stay in watch Netflix, documentaries etc, & love to cuddle on the sofa. I'm not a busybody who always on the go & like to take things easy.
I do go to the gym which is an integral part of my life & been doing so since my mid teens. Therefore eat quite healthy as well and not somebody who regularly eats out.
Don't get me wrong I do love food but I have a good handle on it and only indulge now & again.
Always groomed & look after myself.
I am a non smoker..... Shisha, e-cigarettes & vaping are all smoking so that is a definite no-no for me, major put off.
I am quite a thorough & organised person & do like to do things properly.
I like to plan than be spontaneous.
I'm not into football, cricket, tennis or any other sport really & I don't watch them either.
Not on any social media platform apart from WhatsApp. I have zero interest in posting anything or making pointless comments.
I find it quite annoying when people are constantly looking at tiktok videos & Instagram on their phone.
Cannot stand Bollywood movies, Indian or Pakistani dramas....not because I can't understand Urdu, I can speak it fluently.
Love old 80's & 90's music hip hop an R&B, but don't really listen to much music these days.
I'm very loyal, reliable, responsible, respectful, dependable & affectionate. Definitely not arrogant. I would say I have a good sense of humour but everyone says that, so what is a good sense of humour? I can have a very dark sense of humour though & I am definitely not easily offended.
I'm an open book, very easy going & love to talk. I'm really chilled out not stuck up or arrogant, affectionate & caring.
I mean what I say & say what I mean....people who make promises & don't keep to their word really grinds my gears as well as individuals who have bad time keeping, are not punctual & have bad manners.
I am Muslim first before I am Pakistani.
For me it's Islam over culture, also don't do Khatams, Milaads or celebrate our Prophet's birthday.
I read all my daily prayers & have been doing so for some time now, also read the Quran daily. Yes, I will be waking you up for Fajr!
Being a Muslim isn't just about this it's about your attitude, being good to people & mindful of others having a soft heart & mindful of your own behaviour.
I'm very open minded, very easy going & love having a good chat & conversation.
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What I Am Looking For
Just looking for a decent Muslim woman who has good family values is respectful, simple, loving, caring, follows the Deen as best she can & dresses modestly (no short skirts, sleeveless tops etc & I make no apologies).
Not looking for a Muslim feminist who wants all the benefits, that come with being a Muslim woman, but does not want the traditional responsibilities that come with it... sorry!
I'm not looking for anyone who is overly into their career or career minded. I don't mind my wife working but not to the extent where the job takes over.
We all have our roles and I believe that the wife's role is more focused in the home.
I do love the hijab & would prefer that you would wear one. Although I do realise wearing a hijab is not a sign of religiosity, as long as you are a good muslima and hope to strive to where one one day on a regular basis.
Somebody I can trust depend on & enjoy each others company with. Someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously & definitely not looking for a drama queen!
Is health conscious & mindful of their physical well-being.
I'm not particularly concerned about your level of education, status, job or race. As long as you are an intelligent decent understanding person & a practicing Muslim. Because I believe if you are practising & have the fear of Allah in you then this will enable you to make the right choices & most things tend to fall in place.
Oh & definitely not a follower of the cast nonsense!
Finally....
I don't understand why so many have no or blurred pics in their profile! It is halal to show your face you know. I will not be responding to profiles with no pics, I have mine it's only fair you have yours. Initial attraction is important, No point initiating a conversation then upon reveal there is no attraction, surely this will do nothing for one's confidence and it's not very nice.
Also some putting very little information about themselves, a nice picture isn't always enough to go on!
If you have managed to read all & still not put off do not hesitate to message me, I will reply when I can.
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