A Little Bit About Me
As salaamu `alaykum!
Born and raised in the UK, I'm a BSc graduate in IT. I take an interest in current affairs - I care about Muslims and feel passionately about the Ummah. From what I understand, people generally perceive me as down-to-earth and easy to get along with. I'd say I'm honest and caring; and I try to be humble.
Why do I wish to get married?:
Having completed my education and attained employment, I wish to find a life partner in shaa' Allaah.
What are my responsibilities towards my wife?:
I understand the responsibility of the husband is to provide and take care of the wife's physical and emotional needs.
'They are a garment for you and you are a garment for them.' [Surah al-Baqarah (2):187]
What is my ideal home?:
My ideal home would be based on Islamic values where everyone would have a laugh and a joke but also be serious in supporting each other.
Are you open to an interracial marriage?:
I'm open to any ethnic background because I do not believe it is an issue as Allaah said:
'O mankind! We have created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know one another. Verily, the most honourable of you with Allaah is that (believer) who has At-Taqwa. Verily, Allaah is All-Knowing, All-Aware.' [Surah al-Hujurat (49):13]
Therefore I know that the criteria of importance is not what ethnicity somebody is but what their character is like..
The Prophet (sal-Allaahu `alayhe wa sallam) said in his farewell address: 'O people! Verily your Lord is one and your father is one. All of you belong to one ancestry of Adam and Adam was created out of clay. There is no superiority for an Arab over a non-Arab and for a non-Arab over an Arab; nor for white over the black nor for the black over the white except in piety. Verily the noblest among you is he who is the most pious.'
I believe trust, respect, loyalty and communication are four essential parts of a successful marriage.
If you feel we might be compatible, please don't hesitate to drop me a message.
Thanks for reading and may Allaah grant you what is best for your deen and dunya.
What I Am Looking For
I am looking for a Muslimah who is genuine, sincere and kind with a good sense of humour. Someone with emotional intelligence, depth and an open mind with a non-judgemental attitude.
I am not looking for a time waster, someone morally bankrupt or someone who's materialistic. If I start an exchange with someone and I sense meaningful communication is only going one way, I will end it. If I notice that I am the only one asking questions on compatibility, I will end it. If I sense your reason for registering is just to seek male attention for your ego, I will end it. If caste is a deciding factor for you, please block me. This is ‘Single Muslim’, not ‘Single Hindu’.
Furthermore it is worth mentioning that I have strong Sociological and Political convictions. If you have a tiny, ignorant mind that ascribes to the racist narrative that Muslims who defend themselves from aggression are “Extremists”; then I consider you an enemy of my Religion and sincerely make du’aa that Allaah gives you what you deserve. I despise traitors with every fibre of my being. If you won’t be loyal to the Ummah of Muhammad (sal-Allaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam) then you won’t be loyal to your spouse. It’s pathetic.
I know what I’ve written on my profile is very Religion orientated but that doesn’t encapsulate my personality; it is to explain my values. I enjoy other topics too but I prefer discussing them in messages.
Jazaak Allaahu khayr for reading. May Allaah grant us what is best for our Deen and Dunya, Aameen.