Complete My Deen

Bashir_Asadullah
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My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Religious
My Profession
Sales
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
New Jersey, Trenton
Country
United States
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner
A Little Bit About Me
Born in New York, living in Trenton. I have spent 4 years learning about Islam sense converting and I want to find that righteous sister to love, and be kind to. I just started my own business selling motorcycles and I do maintainance work. I have spent much time to learning my Deen and Insha Allah I've been guided well. Most are shocked about how much I have learned in this short period but I remind them that Hikmah is granted by Allah to whom he wills, when he wills. I love to cook and I do not think that house work is a woman's job, I believe that Islam teaches us that being kind and loving to our wives is a obligation in Islam which many men forget or don't learn.
Kind treatment. The husband must have a good attitude towards his wife and be kind to her, and offer her everything that may soften her heart towards him, because Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

?and live with them honourably? [al-Nisaa? 4:19]

?And they (women) have rights (over their husbands as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their husbands) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable? [al-Baqarah 2:228]
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: ?The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ?Be kind to women.??(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 3153; Muslim, 1468).

It was narrated that ?Urwah ibn al-Zubayr said: ? ?Aa?ishah said: ?By Allaah, I saw the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) standing at the door of my apartment when the Abyssinians were playing with their spears in the Mosque of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). He covered me with his cloak so that I could watch their games, then he stood there for my sake until I was the one who had had enough. So you should appreciate the fact that young girls like to have fun.?? (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 443; Muslim, 892)

I want to be the most kindest, loving man I know how to be to that woman who loves Allah and respects me as her Husband. Insha Allah

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What I Am Looking For
A sister who loves life and knows how to respect herself and her husband and to understand the roles in a islamic marriage. She should love Allah above all. She should have no problem with covering. Islam121, you seem to be the one I would like to know, so try six zero nine nine six four two eights a seven and another eight and that insha allah will help you reach whatever your looking for in life. If Allah has it planned you will find it safely.

?? That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed?? [al-Ahzaab 33:59]. If a woman covers herself, then immoral and corrupt men will know that this is not part of their prey, thus Allaah will protect them and take care of them.

Abu Hurayrah said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ?There are two types of the people of Hell whom I have not seen: a people with whips like the tails of cattle, with which they beat the people, and women who are clothed but naked, walking with an enticing gait and with their heads looking like the humps of camels, leaning to one side. They will not enter Paradise and will not even smell its fragrance, although its fragrance can be detected from such and such a distance.?

A woman [or a man] should not try to comprehend Islamic rulings with her reason ? which is unable to encompass the wisdom of sharee?ah. She should know that whatever Allaah has enjoined upon her contains nothing but goodness and happiness for her, her family and society as a whole. It is known that a woman?s uncovering her hair makes her more attractive to men, which could lead to them forming hopes about her and committing immoral actions. Islam wants society to be clean, with no provocation of desires, outrage or uncovering of women?s charms ? which include their hair ? which can lead to others being tempted by her and which opens the door to evil and its people. I want my wife to know she is always safe with me and I would give my life for her, insha allah.

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
American
Country of Origin
United States
Willing to Relocate?
None
I am Looking to Marry
As soon as possible
My Income
25,000 - 50,000
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
Yes
Do I have children?
Yes
My Living Arrangements?
I Live Alone
Country
United States
County/State
New Jersey, Trenton
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.83m (6' 0")
My Build
Medium
My Hair Colour
Black
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
Yes
Education
My Education Level
High school
Subject I Studied
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Work
My Profession
Sales
My Job Title
Owner
Religion
Religiousness
Religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
Yes Hijab
Beard
Yes
Are You a Revert?
Yes
Do You Keep Halal?
Usually Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Always