A Little Bit About Me
ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ
Note: Flexible to live anywhere 🌍, my dream home is to permanently reside in Dubai with views of the Arabian Sea from our marital home, my life aspiration is also residency in Madinah so we can both die a good death in such a blessed place and be buried there InshaAllah. I reside in Leicester UK and would like to relocate to Dubai after our nikah.
My philosophy is: "If you can dream It, you can have It" and "If you ask, you will get." InshaAllah, Allah knows best and makes any Impossible Possible.
Only a true believer has complete Tawwakul, full trust in Allah and not in creation. We all need Allah to fulfill our wishes, dreams, and aspirations.
بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيْمِ
Let's talk about YOUR dream life and future with your wife! 🏡
- Do you want a wife who dedicates her life to her hubby, family, and their happiness (After Allah)? 👨👩👧👦
- Do you want a wife who holds your hands gently in getting closer to Allah, while having a balanced life, moderate & easygoing? 👫
- Do you want a wife who will always be smiling in your face, saying sweet loving things, having intelligent conversations, and loves to use humor to communicate most life issues? 😊
- Do you like traveling around the world ✈🌍 with your wife who has the freedom to be anywhere in the world all year: a tropical beach 🏖, a scenic mountain ⛰, a cabin in the forest🌳, in front of beautiful sea views nature or skyline 🏙, or even spending a few months in Makkah/Madinah 🕋🕌?
- Do you want to be supported by an accomplished goal setter visionary and motivational writer who knows how to write down and make sincere duas for all our dreams to come true for our Deen Dunya and the Akhirah (Insha'Allah) to achieve our personal goals, let us check our goals and visions off our bucket list together? 📝
-I am happy to be the wife who will be everything you wished for Insha'Allah!
-To wake up with a smile on our faces every morning 🌞, pray fajr and surah Yasin together to help you feel spiritually fulfilled and growing ☪️, to be your guardian angel and princess, and soothing balm protect us from fitnas, fasad, and all the life stressors, and emotional fears, and to be your companion and explore wonders of the world that you never imagined seeing before, Insha'Allah! ♥️
Who am I?
I try to do everything with Ihsaan (excellence) in life, including my prayers, hobbies, marriage, and family relationships. No one is perfect, but our Prophet, peace be upon him, taught us to aim for excellence, and Allah has commanded all believers to have excellence in everything they say and do. I also try to be extremely polite and warm. I am trustworthy, truthful, and respectful, with impeccable manners towards people and family. Most people who know me mention these qualities.
Alhamdulillah, Allah has blessed me with many skills and blessings to make your life special and exciting.
I am academically accomplished as a writer and author for adults and children to nurture successful habits for life and self-published 6 books on Amazon. I have also had an illustrious career as a designer fashion boutique owner and qualified beauty therapist, and I am YTT200 yoga certified.
I have memorized many Surahs of the Quran learning the vast ocean of knowledge and revision Tafseer through my teachers and mentors at nurulilm.com please check their website and you can find them on Youtube. My Shaykh Mufti Tauqeer and his wife Alimah Nadia co-own the academy based in Dubai. I am a murid and student talibul ilm for life and living a life of Sunnah. We must relocate to Dubai to be close to the people I know and trust and hold on to the rope of Allah.
Allah has helped me to travel to many countries 🌎 (and I want to see many other wonders of the world with YOU Insha'Allah! 😊).
Some of my hobbies: Travel is the mother of all my hobbies ✈, also I love pilates reformer to stay lean and fit, writing, deep massages and reflexology, relaxing in steams after my workouts, spas, photography of nature 📷, reading 📚, and learning about the world and other cultures 🇯🇵 You will never be bored with me Insha'Allah, as I try everything Halal in life at least once! 😊
- Other hobbies: 🚵🐈🏕🪂🛳🏓🎨
Do you want to eat delicious food? Alhamdulillah, I can cook a dish from each country I have visited 🍛, so I will make you taste the most culinary gourmet dishes from around the world Insha'Allah 😋 Yes, I'm a connoisseur cook, and focused on healthy cooking and eating good food! I am an intermittent faster, so I'll help us both stay slim, athletic, lean fit and beautiful inside and outside. Our focus is our Tassawuf spiritual rectification Islah of our nafs, and we will both learn and practice our deen to please Allah Insha'Allah.
It is the Sunnah to help each other with cooking and housework, after all, we will be eating our favorite cuisines: 🇯🇵🇰🇷🇮🇹🇱🇧🇪🇸🇲🇦🇪🇬🇮🇳🇮🇩🇹🇭🇨🇳
I cannot say I'm the best person for you. Only Allah decides who is best and who is not. However, I can confidently say that I will try my best to make you and us happy.
We all have our human shortcomings, weaknesses, and deficiencies, but through sincerity and good intentions, Allah helps us to achieve our life goals and visions together insha'Allah! 🤲
Where am I from?
I natively speak English 🇬🇧 and memon fluently as my first language and I am learning to understand Arabic grammar nahw sarf fiqh self-development through the Seerah, the best language I speak is smiling 😊 striving to be kind selfless, and generous. It's universally understood! :)
Ethnically, my parents are Indian. I am a Muslimah by birth, born in Malawi. I have lived in the UK since I was 7 years old. I have also lived in the USA, Texas, for 10 years and in the Bahamas, on Paradise Island, for 6 months. My favorite thing is witnessing peaceful, serene panoramic scenic views of the blue seas and lush green nature from the comfort of our home.
I was brought up to follow Sunni Hanafi Islamic teachings. ☪️
If you want to know more about me, my family, and my exotic life, you must let me know all about you and your questions, I am happy to answer them and we can only tell if we are suited by meeting in person, InshaAllah I can't wait to meet you please do this as soon as possible and we both have to follow the Islamic sharia protocols for halal marriage so our hopes and dream are aligned and we must not delay marriage to protect us getting into fitnas. May Allah protect us in all our lives Ameen.
Do share all about yourself and all your goals and visions for marriage with me and the life you envision as a couple and I want us to be completely honest and easy to talk about anything. I hope you have read and understood my comprehensive bio about who I wish to marry and marriage questions for clarity if we are a good fit for each other to get married Insha'Allah! ❓😉
Don't wait. Life is short and we need to please Allah and live it to the max before we go to Jannah together Insha'Allah ❤🌻🩵
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What I Am Looking For
This is my marriage application so I'll keep it simple here 😅
Who am I looking for? 👓
A humble, softhearted, easygoing, respectful practicing man on deen and good Akhlaq, well-mannered, and is an entrepreneur capable of being the provider, protector, and maintainer as per the command from Allah. He is my bodyguard, a chivalrous true gentleman who knows how to treat a lady. He smiles easily, lives a sunnah life, has a clean and well-groomed appearance and attire, a beard, caucasian complexion, healthy, and good teeth and smiles easily bright blue, grey or green eyes, is taller than me, handsome, athletic, keeps fit, funny, warm, positive, and loves Allah more than anyone and practices the deen and not pick and choose what suits his nafs/desires and is on the path of Tassawuf like myself.
The most important qualities I look for are sincerity empathy deen akhlaq honesty and appreciation of the fine blessings in life bestowed to us by Allah.
We need to care about each other and feel each other's emotions. That's what I seek most in marriage: a deep emotional connection. Do you seek a wife like me for marriage?
Some more about me my family and my aspirations:
I am thrilled to go to Umrah every year in the esteemed company of my Shaykh, his wife, and all NUI students. These are Ulama who I love, respect, and trust, and reside in Dubai. You will get to know everyone and make lifelong friendships.
I come from a pious very religious practicing and respectable family and have lived an affluent life so I hope you like to live and can afford a good standard of living as I have described for our marital home.
Dubai is a beautiful, safe place to live. We intend to be close to the Ulama of Allah.
We will need a good home with sea views my dream home overlooks the Arabian seas with panoramic soothing views from our home and praying for a spouse who is delightful to live with and shares the same visions and goals as I do
I hope you are financially capable of the move to Dubai after our nikah and allow me to be the homemaker and not expect me to go out to work to support us financially or go 50/50 as it's the husband's responsibility to provide protect and maintain his wife and will take and act on my nasihas and advice.
My cousins are Alims Huffaz and Muftis in South Africa. Durban is another beautiful place to visit. My cousins are involved in Darul Iftaa for the teaching of Deen, and my maternal uncle lives in Madinah Munawwarah.
I would also love to have residency in Madinah and go for Umrah and Hajj with my hubby and Nurulilm Academy. As a student of my Shaykh, they have Umrah trips every December and I would like to join as it has been the most nostalgic, magical, miracle experience. English translators take us back in time to the events of our Islam's history during the Ziyaarah in Madinah, and the rituals with your Shaykh in Umrah and Hajj have tremendous blessings.
I am a student of knowledge and a murid of my Shaykh Mufti Tauqeer Alhamdulillah and have been learning my deen from Ulama at nurulilm.com please check their website. I wish to live in Dubai and stay in the company of the friends of Allah it is easier to practice the deen if we keep pious company there are way too many fitnas and fasad everywhere.
I live a peaceful life with my cat; he will come with us to Dubai, my kids are all grown and do not depend on or live with me. My mother is elderly and we siblings 2 brothers and 4 sisters try to visit and look after her as much as possible my father RA passed away in 2014 and my eldest brother RA passed away in 2019
I am a UK citizen who has lived in the UK most of my life. I have also lived and traveled to many countries, so I am well-versed in the world and have experienced life.
Please read my well-informed bio link will be shared upon matching I have shared about myself and who I wish to marry ❤
KINDLY COPY AND PASTE MY COMPREHENSIVE MARRIAGE QUESTIONS AND ANSWER THEM ALL IN ONE MESSAGE TO SAVE US PRECIOUS TIME
If you have any questions, I would appreciate them all written down in one detailed message, and I will insert my answers in the same message. It is easier for me than answering random questions, let's be people of wisdom and make it simple and not complicated for ourselves there is one place to review and examine each other's answers to discuss for clarity and compromises.
I will also share with you my answers to the 1-59 questions from Darul Iftaa Leicester UK that will give you a crystal clear picture of whether we are compatible that I have asked you in my detailed questionnaire for clarity about my personality, religion, and personal life in detail so you will know whether we are right for one another.
Let me know how we should proceed I am looking forward to meeting you very soon in Islam there is no ambiguity all our questions must be answered satisfactorily and we don't delay marriage if a suitable candidate is found for marriage for the pleasure of Allah the Sunnah way and do your due diligence verify about each other's deen and character.
Allah has already decreed our destiny. This is true faith, where we know whatever happens is already destined and will find us. Allah knows what is good for us, even if we can't comprehend His wisdom and time frame for every facet of life—birth, marriage, and death—all in His Hands. All we have to do is keep praying for our greatest Good in both worlds.
Actions To Proceed:
😊 Live video call - if our interactions resonate we arrange meetings with our family's involvement ASAP.
📝 References required - Inquiries on akhlaq deen and sincerity for marriage.
Please Note: I do not debate about religions politics etc, and no time for futile text chats, or dating before marriage is unheard of in Sharia and no such thing exists in Islam, romance begins after Nikah. I am not entertaining bored strangers online entangled in inappropriate behavior that earns the displeasure and anger of Allah via phone/texting delusional love affairs, blind infatuations, haraam zina, or aqeedah issues, or to get my hopes up high and get heartbroken. I can only marry a fully practicing Hanafi Sunni or I have invited you to revert to Hanafi Sunni Islam and are willing to practice the full deen with me and very serious about Nikah. I am not here to waste my time or yours. Let's keep it simple and crystal clear marriage is the real deal. I do not do celebrations, mawlids, or any innovations, or follow culture, or customs, and I am not seeking a polygamous marriage so if you wish for more than 1 wife we are not suited. I do not share my husband with other women or drama. No mutta no mysiar no long distance or secret marriage. I do not accept period! ❌
I am praying you are the hubby that I have dreamed about InshaAllah with all true faith, Allah will grant us blessings and exceed all our aspirations for marriage in our Deen Dunya and Akhirah. Ameen
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