Akif_1983

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Only trying till Mid April

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Akif_1983
Akif_1983
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My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Religious
My Profession
Prefer not to say
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
West Midlands
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner

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A Little Bit About Me
Bismillah-ir-Rahman-ir-Rahim

As-Salaam-Alaikum

Firstly, may you all find the one who is written for you Inshallah.

Unfortunately I have found that my initial messages have been ignored, so please feel free to message first and I promise to respond. I'll leave it all to Allah. If Allah SWT wills then I will find my better half.

Full disclosure, I am only on this site till Mid April. After which I will take it as a sign that it's not meant to be.
Please read ALL parts of the profile before deciding to converse with me.

I'm not here to entertain Haram in any way shape or form.

Now then a little about me........I am the second youngest in a family of 7, which puts me in the category of the forgotten sibling 🤓.

Allah SWT has blessed me with 3 beautiful children who spend 80% of their time with me and 20% with my ex wife (Nikkah only, no registration).

Although I am a qualified Accountant, I currently work in a state of the art Warehouse.
This is due to change shortly as I feel that a career in teaching is calling me 🙂.

I believe that one must have time for Deen and Family foremost, and a job should always be in the background. As the saying goes.....I work to live, not live to work.

I am at the stage in my life where I am thinking of the Akhirah and seeing by children blossom. My career is no longer at the forefront of my mind and I will always now prioritise a job that can accommodate time for Islam, Family and relaxation over monetary value and status.

I love my family time and become a big kid when around my children. Plus I try to get a cheeky holiday in at least once every couple of years. The destination of choice is currently Turkey, you can't beat the all inclusive 🤣🤣

I do like to unwind in the gym, but am in no way a gym freak. That being said anyone who sees my home gym set-up may beg to differ lol. A like minded individual would be a bonus.

I'm not afraid to say that after years and years of battle with Crohn's Disease I finally had a total procto-colectomy and now have a permanent colostomy bag. This has given me a new lease of life and if this does bother you then please swipe past my profile.

My Deen is always at the forefront of my mind and should be for my prospective partner. I am by no means perfect, but who can say they are.
And yes I have a beard, but that does not define me so please try to understand that.

Just to clarify, I do not adhere to new age innovations such as Peers, Hazir Nazir, Mawlid etc.

If you haven't run a mile by now then please read on.

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What I Am Looking For
I've described some of it in the previous post ☝🏽.

Someone who is genuinely looking for marriage and is looking to re-locate.

Someone with a calm nature, and good sense of humour. Someone not caught up on a person's educational background and Job.

Someone who wants a simple chilled out life and doesn't stress about money, work etc.

Compromise is needed to make a marriage work and last.

Someone who puts the Deen and Islam at the heart of all they do. This should not stop at the 5 Pillars but should also think of Aadaab in everyday life.

A homely individual who enjoys quiet nights in as well as family outings.
Someone who has a good work, life balance (if they choose to work).

You are welcome to message me anytime and I'll try my best to get back to you very quickly Inshallah.

I do not discriminate against any race, creed or martial status (widowed, divorced etc). All I ask is that you have permanent stay in this country granted. If you have children then great, I promise to treat them as my own as I would expect you to do the same for mine.

I have a picture and would like you to also reciprocate. If yours are blurred then would like you to grant me access from the get go, I think that's a fair compromise.
The reasoning is threefold;
1. I like to visualise who I'm talking to.
2. Although I understand that looks play a very small part, they do play a part.
3. Unfortunately there are fake profiles on here and it would help to deter catfishing.

May Allah SWT make this journey easy on us.

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
Pakistan
Willing to Relocate?
None
I am Looking to Marry
As soon as possible
My Income
25,000 - 50,000
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
No
Do I have children?
I have three children
My Living Arrangements?
Other
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
West Midlands
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.76m
My Build
Medium
My Hair Colour
Black
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
Yes - please ask me
Education
My Education Level
Masters degree
Subject I Studied
Finance and Accounting
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Urdu
Work
My Profession
Prefer not to say
My Job Title
Warehouse
Religion
Religiousness
Religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
Prefer not to say
Beard
Yes
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Always