A Little Bit About Me
Full time IT consultant, part time entrepreneur. Enjoy doing sports and going out to eat (especially desserts...). Pray all 5 salah and take religion seriously. Of Turkish background. I am 183cm and 74kg.
Unfortunately, I've found there's lots of people who like the idea of getting married, but when it comes to the reality... they run away from it and are too scared or indecisive to make a decision. Let me put it this way, the only reason I'm not married is because others have decided not to move forward. Allah knows best, I'm not too scared of making a decision and committing. Are you?
Best to mention this now: I am not interested in a long getting to know each other period, I think a few months, with regular meetings, is more than enough to understand each other's basic nature. The rest of it (the bad stuff, lol) will only be understood after marriage and living with each other anyway.
I am a bit of an eccentric and think I will be able to have a laugh with my wife. As long as she can put up with my humour!
Religion is important to me and I want a wife who feels the same, and who prays her salah regularly. Also someone who does not take themselves too seriously, so we can have a laugh together. I would prefer someone who wears a hijab or covers their hair.
I think any two people can get along as long as they have respect and are willing to compromise. I have learned from my dad (a terrible husband) important lessons in how not to be a husband, so I hope that this will benefit my marriage in future.
I'm sorry to have to put this in but mutual attraction is a must. I know its not ideal but its being realistic. If your pics are hidden, I would like to see them pretty soon after messaging. If you don’t have any pics at all, I will just ignore your message tbh.
I am a good cook and help my mum with chores around the house. I think a husband should help around the house although this isn’t something I want to come back to bite me in the future! I can cook lots of dinners, although my favourite is probably some of the Italian dishes I can cook.
If I had to describe myself in one word I would say I am reliable. I am the one everyone in my family comes to when they need something to be done.
One important thing I should add. I will always have to live close to my parents (like, walking distance). They are old and obviously I can't just abandon them. I think it would be a good idea for and my wife to live by ourselves for a period of 1 or 2 years, and that maybe, depending on the situation, that we would live them afterwards.
Although convos on here are OK, personally I prefer to start texts/calls/emails sooner rather than later. Better than waiting for both parties to be on here at the same time each time we want to talk. Why waste time?
If I do not respond to your messages please do not be offended. There is obviously a reason why and its just easier than trying not to offend someone by being specific about the reason why.
I think that covers most of my points. Finally, may Allah help you with your search!
What I Am Looking For
Someone who takes their religion seriously, and who I can have a joke with.
Ideally between the ages of 27-35.
The easiest is if you are from or close to London, so that we can have a face-to-face meeting easily. Otherwise everything just takes too long.
UK citizens or those who are eligible to work/live here.