A Little Bit About Me
Salaam and welcome to my profile! Thank you for deeming me interesting enough to check me out. I’m going to try my hardest to give you a taste of who I am but in all honesty I don’t think writing paragraphs about yourself can do you justice when you are as fab of a person as I am 😏
I am going to start off with what I think is the most important thing: deen. I am so humbled and proud to say that I pray 5x a day and Alhumdullilah have been blessed enough to go on Umrah 3 times. Having said all this, I would absolutely not say that I am perfect – I am always striving to further myself in my deen as it is one of the most important aspects of my life and I make sure to make it a priority. Hajj is the next milestone for me and inshaAllah I would love to go with my other half. As a family, we also do not believe in milaad and khatams.
As far as culture goes, I would say I am the furthest thing from a coconut. Even though I have been born and brought up in England, the highlight of every single year for me is our trip to Lahore. Being in touch with your roots and culture is so important for me because living in a Western world, it’s very easy to lose your identity in order to “fit in”. I have always been extremely proud of who I am and where my family has come from, and this is a confidence I would absolutely want to instil in my future children too 😌
Without my parents, I would be nothing. We are a very tight knit, small family and so I am very family orientated, to the point where I would rather sit in and watch superhero or sci-fi movies with my dad on a Friday night rather than go out with my friends (even though some people would find that lame, I think it’s super cool 😎). I speak fluent Urdu at home, even with both of my siblings and understand Punjabi completely. Fun fact – I am that much of a Pakistani that I couldn’t even speak English when I went to nursery 🤩
Perhaps one of the biggest parts of my personality is my sense of humour – I love having a laugh. However, I am also laid back, easy going and mature for my age, as I have been told many times. There’s a time and place for everything so I am not eccentric 24/7 but if we get on, most of the time I will be bantering with you. I am super sarcastic so I feel like you have to have thick skin in order to not get annoyed by me. Life is too short to be boring and dull – I think you should have a positive outlook on life and try to see the best in every situation. My thinking is very much that God doesn’t close one door without getting ready to open another with bigger and greater things!
I’m going to finish off this essay about myself by saying I like doing pretty much anything as long as I am with someone I like. Even if you want to go diving with sharks I will be up for it (even though I can’t swim 🥴) because I believe that a marriage is a 2 way street. You have to be a solid team and support each other always no matter what and be willing to do things that you may not like in order to make your other half happy. Giving up when the going gets tough is not something I like to do – challenges should strengthen your bond rather than weaken it. I can be silly, goofy and absolutely crazy but I am looking for something serious. I would love to settle down and find a life partner to start the next chapter of my life with.
What I Am Looking For
I’ll start off by saying if you don’t know what you’re looking for, please don’t message me. It’s stressful enough having to try and find a life partner so if you are hesitant in any way, either from what you have read about me above or anything else, I really don’t want to know you. I am not looking to waste anyone’s time and so that’s exactly what I expect from anybody else. I am very keen to have family involvement early on and don’t want to waste time by months of messaging either so if that is something you are keen on, again don’t want to know you.
I used to be open minded and believe that if you click, you click. But in reality, there is a lot of users of this website that will take you for a mug and waste your time so unfortunately I am going to have to be harsh. If you don’t meet what I am looking for below then I will not be responding to you. However, if you do find that we may click then I promise I am not this scary if you message me 😂
In terms of a personality, I am very much attracted to people with a great sense of humour. Like I said before, I love having a laugh so if you respond to my sarcasm with even more sarcastic sarcasm then we will get along very well! I enjoy being in the company of people who are easy going, bubbly and fun as well as humble and down to earth. I am also looking for someone who is family orientated and has time for his mum rather than going out for shisha with the boys every night.
As I am finishing off my Masters, I am looking for someone who is well educated and has a decent, stable job because in this way, we will already be on a certain level with each other. My family background is also strong so someone with a similar background would also be preferred, although this is not an absolute requirement.
I would love for my future partner to be strongly interested in growing in their deen. Let’s be honest, it’s not the easiest thing to do on your own – support and encouragement is vital so growing together spiritually in life is one of my goals.
Someone the age of 25-30… if you are 34+ please please don’t waste your own time by messaging me because I am not looking for a sugar daddy 😇
I am also looking for British born only.
I do have a few pictures on my profile so if we get on, then I would be happy to allow you to view them because I do understand that physical attraction is extremely important.
If you think we may be compatible, feel free to send me a message! If not, then I wish you all the best of luck with your search 😊