A Little Bit About Me
Down to earth, creative, practical and ambitious. I regard myself as practising- pray five times a day, fast, give zakah and read Qur’an, Alhamdulillah. My hobbies and interests are varied- enjoy reading, drawing/sketching, I also enjoy walking and visiting new places. I generally enjoy most things in life and try to find the best in everything and all pursuits.
I have been working and living in London for almost 3 years, keeping in regular communication with family and visiting home often. I generally like to maintain my privacy as I am a very private person and strict when it comes to others knowing about matters which do not concern them, including matters in my own home; I always keep details of my home in discussions general. Like keeping myself to myself and am a quiet person, I do not mind getting together for family events; but usually have always kept it to a minimum, but do maintain good relationships with extended family via messaging and correct social etiquette.
What I Am Looking For
Someone who is practising and has a balance between dunya and akhirah. A brother that is open minded- does not mind his spouse working and having her own interests and pursuits. The qualities I look for are deen, generosity and humbleness. Someone who is ambitious and wants to improve upon himself.
Someone who is supportive and encourages his wife to achieve the best in all her endeavours. This point goes both ways of course. To take on his role as a strong head of the family and look after what he has been blessed with. To not take advantage and to throw his weight around, but rather husband and wife work together as equals side-by-side, rather than seeing the other as inferior or superior to themselves. I believe this is required to maintain a healthy balanced home and relationship. If problems occur, both parties need to speak openly and respectfully to resolve issues. Constant communication is key and is something very important to me.