A Little Bit About Me
I will NOT interact with anyone who does not have a picture on display on his profile or wouldn't agree for a video call after initial introduction. Also, with those who are over 44; so, please don't waste your time and mine by messaging me if you are non compliant. In addition, do not request access to view my private gallery without having the etiquette to initiate a chat first; your request will be rejected.
socio cultural diversities, intelligent conversations, poetry (Rumi and Kahlil Gibran the most), art, literature, Philosophy, English language, writing, politics, religion, sophistication, intimate beautiful settings n stimulating conversations (a lost art), world music (Beethoven, Mozart, Enya, Farid Farjad. No blaring noise pollution), world cuisine, art n culture, rainy season, full moon, stars, long walks, candle light, amber, musk, lazing in bed on weekends, smiling often (not a giggle pot though), learning to cook, maintaining short hair (have real short hair- approximately about 5.08 cm long – cant imagine growing them please), shopping.
extrovert yet shy, cautious and not afraid, moderately religious and not a fanatic or a hypocrite, not someone who wears hijab or would promise doing so any soon, dreamer and a philosopher at heart, a good orator and a moody writer, someone who believes in infinite possibilities, a woman in tune with my logic and reason yet balanced by my heart, always seeking balance and positivity in life, quite liberal in my perspective and approach to life but have an infallible understanding of what is categorized as haraam/sin.
What I Am Looking For
I’m a soul that wanders and a body that is a whirling dervish. I’m looking for brilliance that can acknowledge the unseen states.
I continue to look for someone who has an intellectual bent of mind. I don’t care what car you drive or where you live or what lineage you belong to. Also, I don’t care how seasoned a globe trotter you are. Your pompous long lists aren’t something that will ever fascinate me; therefore, please abstain from sending me messages telling me about such tosh.
A mature and confident male who
- has integrity
- is no more than 44 years old
- is free from convoluted thinking
- is well qualified/exceptionally well read
- is someone with an intellectual bent of mind
- is nonchalant towards everyday chaos
- has liking for art
- likes conversations
- likes attending sufi festivals
- respects cultural diversity
- believes in having a social life (and is not a ‘get home from work and be a couch potato’ sort)
- is a sapiophile
- maintains balance between EQ and IQ
- is well behaved
- is ambitious
- likes travelling
- likes eating out
- is polite
- is sophisticate and classy
- is genuinely nice
- is caring
- is non-judgmental
- is always well groomed
- has good dress sense
- is pleasant to the eye
- speaks flawless English (since that’s the language I think in and prefer my conversations in)
- is someone who can respect my likes
- may be a revert (but not an extremist/orthodox/fundamentalist)
- is a moderate Muslim
No tolerance for:
- Wahhabis and Salafis
- those who are shallow enough to think I am here for a visa
- orthodoxies, fundamentalist and hypocrites
- typical Asian male
- 'brothers' who are looking for 'sisters'
- obstinate cocooned souls
- poor etiquette
- bad English communication skills (bad grammar, text speak, slang)
- those who have future plans to settle in any Asian country
-those who imitate others
- those who impose or dictate ways of life on/to others in the name of Islam, family or society
- those who are authoritative
- those who are cunning
- those who are judgmental
- drama king
- family puppet: mamma’s or papa’s boy or big sis or bro’s undertaking
- those who can't take their decisions
- piercings, jewellery, tattoos
- poor dress sense
- unhygienic ways of life
- those who set up multiple profiles and post modified glamorous century old/no photos
- watch dogs who maintain a dos n don’ts diary
- mind games
- time wasters and indecisive individuals
I don't respond to narrow minds so being open minded is a great start. Even though I have mentioned the desirable characteristics, 'attraction' is very important to me, so we can only progress if there's mutual attraction and a connection.
Only contact me if you are serious about a relationship leading to marriage within a span of 2 to 3 months from the time of initiating a conversation.
*** TIME WASTERS PLEASE KEEP OFF. ALSO, ANY INAPPROPRIATE CONVERSATION/LEWD MESSAGES HERE OR ELSEWHERE (SKYPE/WHATSAPP) WILL BE DEALT WITH STERNLY AND REPORTED TO THE CYBER CRIME DEPARTMENT. THEREFORE, AVOID CONNECTING WITH ME IF YOU CANNOT BEHAVE YOURSELF.