A Little Bit About Me
As’salaam Alaikum Jazakallah for reading my profile. I hope you are in the best of health and imaan. Ameen
I’m not here for Deen and Dunya, its Deen before Dunya 🤲🏽♥️
I reverted to Islam on 05/11/2005. I was always God Conscious, used to go Church and Allah blessed me with Islam
I’m very close to my family probably more now in this time of my life than ever, especially my mother Alhamdulillah. Being a revert, I appreciate that my family understand my belief and except and respect it Alhumdulillah 😊. I have 2 boys 7 and 13 years of age. They don’t live with me.
I pray regularly. Allahuma Barek
I don’t smoke, drink, club, pub. I have no interest in this kind of stuff oh and that includes drugs and substance abuse of any kind. I shouldn’t have to mention this but I just wanted to point this out and put emphasis on this as it’s rife.
I think deep, feel deep and talk deep but this also depends on the company.
I work very hard. I’m not lazy and I hardly watch TV unless I’m watching a movies. I was hooked on Turkish series Ertugrul and watched like 5 times 🤦🏽♂️. I like listening to You Tube talks, nasheeds. Shaykh Hoblos
Reading is something that interests me alot especially Islamic Literature. I just dont read as much as I should but inshallah this will increase. I do read Quran in English but thats not really reading Quran is it!🤦🏽♂️.
I enjoy spending time in the home as well as going out, the usual going out to eat but I also love cooking and yes I do clean as well. I’m quite house proud even though I don’t like putting the dishes away, Weird I know!
When I’m out the house I’ve gone mountain trekking, climbed Ben Nevis Twice. Scotland is a beautiful place especially the areas where I’m jumping off cliffs into lakes 🤦🏽♂️🤣😂 lol. I get a bit of an adrenaline rush and I’m definitely not shy being in the outdoors.
I would like to go on walks hand in hand...sounds cheesy but it is what it is. I like nature as it’s got a calming relaxing feel to it and you get to appreciate Allah’s creation Alhamdulillah and the fresh air is different compared to the city. Even just sitting in the garden on the swinging chair is quite relaxing.
I would like to get to know someone on a deep level. Marriage is a blessing but there has to be compassion, respect and care. TRUST, LOYALTY and HONESTY...I’m sorry but I’ve read these on so many profiles these should not even have to mentioned.
Marriage is a compromise. A couple get married, the man wants to sleep with the window open and the woman wants to sleep with the window closed. This compromise is needed in any marriage and cannot be one sided as that’s not a healthy relationship.
Not sure what Allah has planned for me but it’s for me to do my bit and my duas and leave the rest to Allah.
I never was the study type. I’ve always worked very hard and I would like to say I have a good work ethic.
I have a good heart and want to try and keep it in check. My Deen helps with this Alhamdulillah.
Islam is my Deen. It is very close to my heart and important to me. I try to implement as much of the little I know and I just try and do as much as Allah has blessed me with Alhamdulillah . I try and pray Tahajjud regularly even though in recent days it’s becoming a struggle 😔 but this is up and down; consistency is key and I’m working on it 😉.
I would be willing to do everything for my wife. As the saying goes, I’m the kind of guy that would go above and beyond and I would appreciate the same in return.
I’m a straight talking and straight to the point kinda guy but I’m also just a simple guy with a big heart. I get told I wear my heart on my sleeve. I’m not tight or selfish.
No one is perfect but I’m 100% willing to take on board any advice you may want to give as long as it’s done with respect as disrespect rarely motivates anyone to do anything.
By the way, the only Social Media I have is Whatsapp, nothing else. I feel it’s a waste of time and I’m old fashioned like that; I’d just rather talk.
I’m not photogenic at all 🤦🏽♂️ lol. I feel I look better in person 😊. I’m growing my beard Alhamdulillah. It’s the Sunnah of the best of creation ﷺ. I read some profiles that say well groomed, not sure if that means beard well groomed or no beard! 😊.
Anyone not religious...we probably may not have much in common. May Allah bless us all and put Barakah in our searches for our future partners. Ameen.
Not travelled much but it’s something I would definitely like to do more inshallah.
Money is not the be all and end all for me but I do have my targets. I am working on something, this can be discussed in more detail with the right person inshallah.
Allah already knows what I want and desire but as He is the owner of sustenance, I am leaving it to my Rabb as Allah knows best.
What I Am Looking For
I would be happy to find someone that I click with so that we could be there for each other mentally, emotionally, physically and financially. Age to me us just a number and I would marry someone older then me just as I would marry someone younger. I would like to get on and be each other’s best friends 😊.
I understand we would not be perfect; no one is. I’m more than willing to accept someone’s flaws and mishaps just as I would like them to except mine. Nothing major but two individuals will never always agree on everything but understanding and respecting each other helps. Alhamdulillah.
Marriage is a compromise. We take the good with the bad but respect is a big thing to me. I feel you cannot truly get close to someone if they cannot respect you. Hopefully having this quality inshallah would lead to them loving you.
It would be nice to desire a woman who takes my feelings and emotions into account as this is how I would be with her. I feel this is very important.
Sometimes I may not say things in the best way. I’d want my wife to get to know me and understand me as well as my heart and see me for who I am and that the good definitely outweighs the bad. I would want her to know that my heart could not be content knowing I’ve hurt anyone’s feelings let alone her’s.
No one wants to not feel wanted. I mean it’s best not to be with anyone that makes you feel this way especially if the feelings are not reciprocated. It’s best not to continue communicating.
I guess what I’m trying to say is that I would like my future wife to understand me for me. I’m far from perfect. actually im imperfect but for the right person inshallah I will be imperfectly perfect. I have a lot to give and I pray Allah allows me to be with the woman that is good for me and me for her. Hopefully we will grow to love each other. Love is a gift from Allah. May Allah put love in the hearts of both spouses. Ameen