A Little Bit About Me
Loyal, passionate, good hearted... also a bit of a weirdo.😜 And quite clumsy.😅🤕
Reverted over 3 years ago Subhan Allah. I'm mixed-raced, Sri Lankan and Irish. A blessed mother to one BEAUTIFUL baby boy alhamdulilah.🥰 He's 5 months old, from my previous marriage.
Previously divorced. Without all the detail/backbiting my ex-husband was just VERY unfaithful to me in MANY ways and did alot of things against Allah.....
When I found out about everything I was then divorced at 4-5 months pregnant with my son and I've been alone since.
Pleeeaaase don't pity me!😊 This life is just a huge test, and as long as we get closer to Allah through trials and pain then in shaa Allah we are passing our test. (I really don't care about this temporary world haha.) Alhamdulilah I've always been a strong and patient person.🤷🏻♀️
Given my past experience I now need to be very careful of who I choose as a husband and as a father.🤔👀 I'm not in a rush and I'd like to take the time to get to know someone well before marriage, but in a halal manner. Then my son would be alot older by the time I marry too... does this make sense?🤔😅
Islam is EVERYTHING to me, I've sacrificed and gone through so much to get to where I am today.💖 I enjoy reading Islamic books and watching lectures. I pray salah, always keep halal, give to charity and I dress modest alhamdulilah. I was attending a few classes before the lockdown. I love to seek knowledge and try hard to put it into my actions and character.🤲🏼
Just want to add I became a Muslim BEFOREEE I met my ex husband!☝🏼😄... My Islam was my own beautiful discovery and choice alhamdulilah! I've fought very hard just to say la ilaha ilallah.🙋🏻♀️☪️ Also the day after I reverted a beautiful monarch butterfly landed on my right finger and then on my right shoulder. I felt like this was Allah saying "welcome home" or something idk.🥰🤷🏻♀️
Hmm what else about me?😅
♡ SUPER SHY!😳
♡ Love animals/nature/astronomy.
♡ Very quirky/funny/weird.
♡ Adventurous but equally homey.
♡ Conspiracy theorist!😅
♡ DEEP thinker/ponderer.
♡ OCD/clean FREAK!🙈
♡ Unattractive laugh.☠
♡ Occasional over salter.👩🏻🍳
♡ Into fitness/gym/swimming.
♡ Terrified of spiders and I will scream our house down if you do not take it out!!!!😱
♡ DESPISE mushrooms!
Jazak Allah khair for reading my novel and sorry if you fell asleep.😸 May Allah swt guide us all to what is best for us and bless us with our true soulmates.🌹 Ameen.
What I Am Looking For
⚜《Can you do it?》⚜ As I've said above my ex husband cheated, divorced and left me when I was heavily pregnant, and hasn't ever been involved in my sons life since. So as well as looking for a husband, I am looking for a good reliable father for my son and for future children in shaa Allah.🤲🏻 I know that taking on someone else's child is a big responsibility and requires a special loving heart, that's why I want to start off with this so you know what marrying me means.🤷🏻♀️ Marrying me would mean raising my son up together with me and Allah. I hope and pray my future husband would accept my son as his own one day in shaa Allah, and that Allah will reward and bless him greatly.🤲🏻
⚜《Religousness》⚜ I don't expect an alim, hafiz or anything like that... Masha Allah it's obviously really good if you are may Allah bless you, but I don't expect it.😊 A religious title isn't always everything! and outward appearances can be very deceiving! I'm just looking for someone sincere, that pushes themself everyday to be a better Muslim. I only would expect a basic understanding of Islam and be practicing, in terms of 5x salah, going to mosque and reading the Qur'an regularly etc...
⚜《About him》⚜ Deen orientated, but not in the wrong cultural way where it makes him super strict, cruel or oppressive🤔 ...that is not Islam. Our deen is based on our heart and how we treat others, especially our spouse.🥰 Enjoy a funny side together and be happy in each others company. Even be like children with each other.🤣❤ Easy going and relaxed like myself. I don't expect you to blow money on me, I would rather us save up for hajj in shaa Allah 🥰🤲🏻🕋... but I'd like to go out together often to keep that "us" time and the romance alive, little date nights and fun days out that we look forward to etc. 🥰🧕🏼🧔🏻 Looking for someone loyal, trustworthy, honest and reliable.
CLEANLINESS is a must!!💦🧼 I mentioned above I'm abit of an OCD freak!!🤣 haha no in all seriousness though cleanliness is half our imaan and I would want a husband to take good care of his health and hygiene and be a tidy person. I enjoy cleaning and take pride in keeping a spotless home but I'm not going to be a maid/mum for you!🙅🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ Unfortunately the sunnah of helping your wife in the home has been washed away by culture.😕🤔 I would want a husband to understand that I live WITH him, not FOR him... I'm his equal partner and we are a team!❤ If you also took the scary spiders out the house I would be grateful!😱🕷
I'm looking for a best friend to work together in dunya and especially in deen!
Someone to seek comfort in and feel safe with.
I'm looking for security, someone who will look after me and my son and protect us both.
A soul who pushes himself daily to please Allah, I would love deen to be his priority but in the correct gentle and loving way of our Nabi s.a.w.
Someone romantic and loyal... and at times weird and crazy like me.🤪😋
A soul who LOVES and FEARS Allah sooo much that he would never ever dream of hurting me.
A bonus would be if you're a clean freak like me!😅
Jazak Allah khair for reading.😊 Sorry to go on so much but I've just been hurt alot and now want to make it clear what I'm looking for/not looking for.🤷🏻♀️
May Allah swt guide us all and grant us what is best for us. Ameen.💫