A Little Bit About Me
I'm considered, and consider myself to be quite strong in character yet Sanguine (look it up) in nature. And when I say strong, I say it with positive connotations. My glass tends to be more half full than not, as a result of which I smile...a LOT!
I honestly cannot state the level of my religiosity, I believe this is for Allah to determine. He knows just how imperfect I am (as I do), and I am grateful for His veiling. What I can tell you is that I sincerely believe in treating others with respect and love, whether they be Muslim or not. I abhor the 'isms' within our community so if you subscribe to them, be wise and pass me by.
I am a deep thinker and crave meaningful relationships rather than one for superficialdom. If you consume and spit out relationships on the basis of a few hiccups, I am not the one for you. One of the mistakes made amongst (some) couplings, is the desire to turn the other into a copy of themselves or an 'ideal'. Love is about acceptance, never possession. I am thus inclined to a man grounded in reality. Perfection will never be ours, we merely strive.
I am fully open to marrying outside of my ethnicity. I do not mind if you have children. They are a blessing, not a deal-breaker.
I don't communicate to many people simultaneously and apologise in advance for 'turtle-speed' matching. If I have read your message and not replied either way, it means that I am in communication with an individual and will come back to you. If you cannot dedicate yourself consistently then please avoid. Conversation and connection does not flourish without regularity. Peoples 'time' is priceless and a currency that once spent, can never be recouped. Please reflect on the seriousness of this.
I prefer to move to a more direct mode of communication around the fortnight mark so don't be afraid to suggest phone contact. I am comfortable with you, as a man, taking the lead. In terms of meeting, I believe this needs to occur sooner, not later, to establish wether there is any mutual attraction/interest on a physical, emotional & intellectual level. Real chemistry is never truly gauged until two people meet in 'real' life.
If you are not in a position to drop your guard and make yourself courageously vulnerable in giving and receiving love then you are not in a position to value that which resides within me.
I train five times a week. If you have an issue with me inhabiting the weights area of a gym, please note that I won't be sacrificing it, this is my sanctuary. And no, I am not built like Ronnie Coleman. I thoroughly enjoy my femininity.
For those of you who register interest, understand that I will not tolerate any sexualised behaviour. I am disappointed that (some of) you have adopted this distorted sense of privilege. You were created to be much greater than this.
If you have read this profile with your glass half empty, you will, most definitely misread me. Most will find me intimidating however, I am not here to appease the masses. I am here for just one
What I Am Looking For
An individual who READS profiles prior to initiating contact. If you inbox me with a solitary 'salam' or its equivalent then I will delete the message without replying as I equate that to you being a low effort individual and/or being a poor communicator.
I am attracted to (healthy) masculine energy. A man who takes care of himself physically in some form, is secure within his own identity, and one that is not infected with the type of misogyny that parades under the guise of Islam. I prefer myself to be the lady in a marriage, not you....
I won't be interested in communicating with individuals who have no available photo on their profile.
You understand what is occurring in the world right now and should it become far worse (and it will, if the majority permit it, and they are) you will be willing to consider uprooting and leave to be amongst those that value their freedom.