A Little Bit About Me
Assalamualaikum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakaatuh.
Please take a moment to read the below, thank you.
Alhumdolilah I have done Hajj 2 times (may ALLAH accept), both with Sheikh Omar Suleiman who honored me by saying the following about me:
" No one will treat their wife better than Muhammad (me) ."
Sheikh Omar Suleiman + Sheikh Tahir Wyatt are good friends of mine (Alhumdolilah) and are willing to vouch for my character.
People say the following about me: That I am very Friendly and Loving, Polite & Honest, open minded (understanding), Family-oriented, Mature, Soft-hearted, Philosophical, always Smiling, and Respectful.
Alhumdolilah I exercise daily (I am physically fit), I love going for walks, telling light jokes, helping around the house, taking care of children and making people smile.
By the Mercy of ALLAH I have traveled to Makkah/Madinah every year for the last ~8 years. By the Mercy of ALLAH I would like to live a life, with my spouse, pleasing ALLAH.
I'm looking for someone who Values Islam over everything else. Someone to be my best friend and to enjoy life together. A gentle, soft-hearted person (I have a very soft heart so prefer someone similar). Someone who wears Hijab (or plans to as her own decision) and doesn't mix around with the opposite gender unnecessarily (I don't either).
Even if you don't match the above but are trying too, please honor me with your time and may ALLAH guide us.
Looking for my best friend, who I can be there for when she's happy or sad, be the reason she smiles, someone to travel with and go for Umrah (every year In'Sha'ALLAH), someone to write poems for, someone to walk with along the Pier, try out different restaurants (especially dessert places hahaha), someone to do charitable deeds with, and most importantly someone to grow with in our Deen.
If you have a past (divorced, widowed, a child) then that is the past, you had no control over it and it doesn't change who you are as a person, and I will be honored with your consideration.
One thing I will say about myself is that whomever ALLAH had chosen for me I promise to love her, care for her and treat her in the best possible manner I can.
It was narrated from Ibn 'Abbas (RA) that: The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: "The best of you is the one who is best to his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives."(Sunan Ibn Majah, Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1977)
What I Am Looking For
Someone with exceptional Deen and Ikhlak: someone who is soft-hearted, soft-spoken, shy and kind-hearted.
(I am looking for these things because I feel I have the same attributes).
Must wear Hijab please either now or when married (because it is a Fardh in Islam).
Also please keep in mind that if you are divorced, widowed (and have a child) that doesn't make you any less precious to ALLAH (meaning I don't dwell over the past).
Please have your Wali involved from the beginning (if applicable).