A Little Bit About Me
☆☆Please see my preferences before expressing interest. With all respect looking for BRITISH BORN (NEVER MARRIED) with a good level of education (Degree preferred) ☆☆
Assalamu alaykum, by the grace of Allah, I am a practising Muslim and Alhamdulillah, have been observing prayers from a young age. I am a simple and down to earth person who is little shy and independent. I have a good sense of humour, and will make you smile, always. I am well spoken and easy to get on with and can communicate well with everyone, from the little ones all the way to the elders. Alhamdulillah I am sincere in everything I do and a very patient person. I place great reliance on the Decree of Allah, and trust He always Wills what is best for us. So no stress with me ☺ I will bring forth honesty, good character, an open heart, loyalty and support your ambitions. I am an optimistic person with positive energy and would love to have someone where we can inspire and motivate each other. My family are very much the same and you will be made to feel most welcome inshaAllah. I absolutely love cooking/experimenting and consider myself a homely girl....oh and a hopeless romantic 🙈🤣! I firmly believe that the happiest couple in the world never have the same nature. They just have the best of understanding of their differences and whatever may be missing in me, I believe, Allah will gift that quality in my spouse and vice versa.
I have always worked full-time since completing my degree. I did go on to doing a Masters in Law which I have currently taken a break from. I work at a prestigious and reputable firm and have been with them 3+ years. I also have an online platform where I promote my bridal and party henna business.
Outside of my studies and work I have a varied interest. I like to travel and have passion for photography. I love travelling and having active holidays and look for fun and thrill seeking activities, like snorkelling, jet skiing and parasailing. Such an amazing world out there just waiting to be explored! I pray that you are someone who I can share my passions and journeys with and will join me in my adventures.
What I Am Looking For
British born aged 29-35 with a good level of educaion (degree level preferred). A good balance of Deen and banter!!!! It is important to me that the prospective groom be accepting of my enthusiasm for Islam, and be himself observant of the basic principles at least or is at least trying to get closer to Allah. The goal for me, through marriage, is to grow closer to Allah and deen together InShaAllah. Islam isn't as difficult as it's it made out to be, just pray, do your bit for others and be nice. Simple. Of course nobody is perfect and faith should be a choice and yearning, not a compulsion. Insha’Allah we can learn from each other and grow together. It would be amazing if we could pray together 😊 Also I am looking to go Hajj in the near future too, Allah willing, perhaps it is something we can do as a pair 🙂 I am not looking for perfect but just someone who has taqwa, is kind, respectful, honest and a family man.
Although attraction is of course important, as this is a life-long commitment, so there needs to be chemistry, I am more interested in the connection I have with the person. If you asked me what my type is, I honestly couldn't say, it just depends on the individual. But if someone has a good heart, their inner beauty shines and radiates through their face. As for myself I am not very photogenic, but am told I look much better in person. I hope I have a good heart too. I'll let you be the judge of that. More importantly, I would like someone who I can hold intelligent conversations with, and also be able to be silly and have fun and jokes with too. You can talk to me about pretty much anything and I am a good listener. Family is also important to me and it would be nice to find someone who shares the same values. You'll find me not like your average Bengali. I am very fair, open minded and modern in my thinking, but also hold onto my roots and values, and can distinguish between religion and culture. I steer away from gossip, heresay and backbiting.
Sorry to go on, but if you've lasted this long, I might be onto something hehe. Looking forward to getting to know you better inshaAllah. May Allah make the search easy for us all. Allahumma ameen.
▪Your wife has the most right to good behaviour, and having the best manners to them, because she is the one who is with you day and night, openly and secretly. If you are afflicted with something she is afflicted along with you, and if you're happy, she is happy along with you, if your sad, she is sad along with you, therefore you should make your dealings with her better than your dealings with strangers, so the best of the people are those who are best of them to their wives.
['And Live With Them in Kindness’ Compiled and Translated By Abbas Abu Yahya]▪