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Asalaamualaikum warahmatullah, hmmmm where to begin ! To be honest i havn not been looking to be in a relationship for long time now, as i kinda figured that when its written and is qadr it will come, so why chase it lol. That being the case, for one reason or another i am on here now, so maybe theres a reason that is so :) we will see !
My name is ibraheem, i have been muslim for around 22 years now, having embraced islam at around the age of 18, through the dawa of my Mother mashAllah, who with sabr gave me alot of dua and guidance ! My mum is also a revert, and became muslim around 11 years before me, so to be honest i grew up around a mix of Islam, and Christianity from a young age.
By trade my background has been in general building, and i have been involved in various aspects of building for around twenty years, however for the last two years i have been chasing other work opportunities in Morocco, and so have lived between the Uk, and Morocco for that time period.
On the side i have also have been trying to set up a small islamic Art buisness, which if is eventually fruitfull would be the path i would love to follow, as my dream would be to make a living from what i love doing, my Artwork !
Having been able able to do some basic Arabic studies in Syria, and Egypt some years ago, i would love to continue and follow on studying inshaaAllah. It would be a massive bonus, if there was a sister with similar passion for deen, and Arabic, lol if bonus is the right word ! An old friend told me once, that Islam is a treasure, and its key is the language of Arabic, soooo i want that key ! inshaaAllah, just need that extra push i think.
Having been able to visit a few different countries, and also completed hajj alhamdullilah, a dream would be to visit every country on earth before i leave the dunya, inshaaAllah, say ameen :)
I love to travel as i find myself closest to Allah when traveling, maybe because most of our safety nets are taken away at that time, the weights of normal life unchained, and reliance upon Allah swt greater.
Cooking o.0 erm i think i can cook lol, but im not sure everyone else does, maybe thats why im single lol. People just dont know whats good for them ! i guess you would have to decide for yourself ha ha
In life i would like to achieve independence, to be self sufficient totally inshaaAllah, and to become the best i can be in every relationship i have, from being Allahs slave, to being a husband, a son, a brother, a father, etc, but i think that sometimes to become that, you have to have learnt from life, by your mistakes, hurts, and losses. May Allah make us the best we are capable of being.
Im not so hung up on wealth other than the doors it opens up for ebadah, stability, to complete the dreams i have for myself, those i love, and to please Allah by full filling the responsibilities upon me, inshAllah.
What else is there ! To eventually make hijrah to a muslim country, if there are any left that is, eventually living between the UK, and where ever that may be. A place where i can hear the athan, would be amazing ! If i were to have the choice, it would be morocco, having travelled to a few countries i liked the feel of morocco, the Art, the history, the weather, but Allah knows best where we will be, hmmm but then i guess with the right person, anywhere would be good.
The next part is what i think may make you run away, do you have your running shoes on !
Marital status, is that i am divorced twice ! yes twice lol , the first marriage was for around 20 years, and the second for around 16 months in total, may Allah guide them both, bless them with good spouses, and bless the generations to follow them.
With both these experiences, i would be much more careful to make sure that both myself, and any potential wife are really good for each other, each others families, deen, and dunya, as if marriage does come, i really want stability, and so with that i am in no rush to marry unless it was really right. Love at first sight nikah two days later :)
Hopefully i have learnt much more with the mistakes i have made, and will be a better husband through that, may Allah help me to be of the best thereof.
Ok yess lol ! I have children from my first marriage, who live with their mother alhamdullilah, its important to me to be a part of their lifes, and so i have them when i can, and keep contact with them, i wouldnt expect any sister i married, to have a relationship with them unless she wanted to.
Pictures hmmm, ill put some on show for now, but i expect to be on and off here, so once the subscription is finished i will close them.
With messages i will only reply to sisters with photos, if i dont answer a message its because i am talking to somone, and dont want to talk to more than one person, i know alot of sisters think that asking to see a sister, means a guy is only interested in looks, its not the case, but it is important that there is mutual attraction, and so i would rather not get into speaking to anyone i havnt seen. The eliments of a relationship i believe are three lol, 1 Mutual compatability in terms of personality, 2 similar want in terms of deen, and last but not least 3 mutual attraction.
Ok i think ive said enough subhanAllah, so ill stop, and if i think of anything else ill add more later inshaaAllah, i bet you havnt read that much in a long time ha, just emagine you could have finished baqarah during it lol.
Thankyou for looking and may Allah guide us all to what is best for us in the dunya, and aakirah. Ameen wa Dua , please, jazakAllahukhayr.
I would like to find a sister who is practising her deen already, who has a relationship with Allah, and is already striving to learn, and better herself, or is trying to improve her deen, praying, wearing hijab, preferably, not just around her head but her body too, having hijab of modesty and mind too. Trying to or wants to follow Quran and sunnah, this because i feel that the deen based upon Quran, and sunnah, especially, is nourishment for our eman which ultimately, will be the a greatest bond, and strength, in the ups, and downs of any marriage relationship, and life.
I think also that the main purpose of a halal relationship, and marriage is to push, and pull each other towards Allah swt, and His Jennah, To be a comfort, covering, shield, garment for each other, from haram, fitnah, and headaches of the dunya.
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