Looking for an honest, committed man

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My Sect
Just Muslim
Religiousness
Somewhat religious
My Profession
Administration
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
West Yorkshire
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner
A Little Bit About Me
While we have this beautiful weather, I'm out more, cycling, walking etc. Love walking on a night when there's a cool breeze and equally love it in the sun... I've already got a tan lol.

I work part time and I have two beautiful boys Alhamdulillah who live with me.

I enjoy outdoors; walking and cycling, love country parks and cycling routes.

I have a fear of heights so I don't like rides or looking down from very high up lol.

I am honest, committed, caring and hard-working. I love to see kindness from the heart - genuine people are rare these days.

"Treat me good and I'll definitely treat you better." That is true to my heart.

I'm very much a homely person, I like to cook and bake, much prefer homemade food to takeout. I enjoy day trips to the beach, country parks, theme parks etc with my children. I do enjoy short UK breaks at caravan parks, gives us the chance to explore and enjoy park facilities.

I prefer tea to coffee. I love chocolate, lindor truffles are my fave.

I'm quite westernised in my dress sense but my morals are grounded. I am faithful, loyal and committed.

When I'm not working, I'm busy with house chores and family commitments. I probably relax after I put my little one to sleep. I watch Eastenders, that's the only soap I do watch. I like crime dramas and thrillers. I am a bit OCD when it comes to cleaning, I like everything clean and tidy.

I'm petite and slim but I definitely need to tone up.... just need to push myself to hit the gym again.

"The road doesn't go where we planned. It goes where it's written to be." Yasmin Mogahed

If I feel we are compatible then I'm happy to meet you in person for a chat or coffee... I drive so I can commute to you or meet you half way.

I do want children, another child will be a blessing. If Allah wills then I'd be soooo happy.

In sha Allah you all find the right person for you🙏

Love this quote: "A simple word of advice to every husband and every wife.
Know that the One Who cares most about your spouse and Who is most Compassionate toward them and has greater concern for them sees you and is watching you. Don't listen to how people think and feel you should behave with your spouse, behave with your spouse as Allah expects you to."

Life is too short to miss out on being happy....

If my profile is hidden, it means I'm getting to know someone.🤗

I'll reply to messages as soon as I can....🙂

Marriage is never easy but if we remove divorce as an option, we have a better chance and if two people want it to work, it will work in sha Allah.

"Don't let the concept of change scare you as much as the concept of staying unhappy." ❤❤❤
Timber Hawkeye

"The best of Allah's servants are those who remind you of Allah when you see them."

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What I Am Looking For
UK Citizen only

First language English

Someone older 42 or above please. Don't waste your time if you're younger.

An honest, caring, compassionate individual who can treat us with love and respect. Respect and love are returned when they are received.

Someone who wants to get closer to deen and understands the basic principle of marriage in Islam; men have a higher degree in responsibility. A nice, caring personality is key to a successful marriage and ofcourse we need Allah in our lives.

Looks are not important but some sort of attraction/chemistry is necessary.

It would be great to meet someone who shares the same interests, someone who would enjoy long walks with me or some time away, to break away from the normal, day to day routine. We all need a break.

Ideally someone who is mature enough to deal with differences and disagreements we may have. Someone who won't quit on the first hurdle and demand space and divorce... marriage is a commitment we make, to be there for each other no matter what. There isn't a single soul who isn't tried and tested and marriage is half of our deen. I would love to be able to have someone by my side and be by his side no matter what... in sha Allah.

Ultimately, we all want to be happy and having a decent partner will give us that happiness. I'm not interested in material things. To me, your time, support, love and understanding mean more... that would genuinely make me happy.

I don't want to hear sugar coated lies to make yourself look good, I rather hear the truth about your past (we all have one). I'm not interested in fake people who have an appearance to maintain, real people don't care. Your past doesn't bother me. What bothers me are lies and liars, people who pretend to be something they are not. Starting a relationship/marriage on lies is never a good start. What matters to me, is your present and future, that's all that matters.

Anyone can say the right things but I want someone who can walk the talk and keep his word. Actions speak LOUDER than words.

As the second of the five pillars of Islam, ṣalāh is one of the greatest acts of worship. It is an act in which we shut off the world around us to converse directly with Allah (subḥānahū wa taālā), displaying our complete servitude (ubūdiyyah) to Him.
Ṣalāh is one of the best ways to remember Him, become close to Him, and erase our many sins. It is Islam’s criterion, distinguishing the believers from the disbelievers.
Our beloved Prophet Muḥammad ﷺ described ṣalāh as the ‘joy’ of his life. Yet sadly, many of us today consider the same ṣalāh an inconvenience. Instead of ‘wanting’ to pray, we feel like we ‘have’ to pray.

Allah did not say that males are qawwam over women; rather, He said "men" are qawwam. This is something we need to think about and ponder.

This life is filled with tests and trials; we move from one to the next. Allah tests all of us and in different ways. We just need to understand that Allah is All-Wise so there is most certainly a wisdom and a reason behind those tests.

"Don't delay your marriage because of financial worries, it's a promise from Allah that He will provide for you and will give you more than you were already earning before marriage." (24:32)

"Live with them (wives) in accordance with what is fair and kind." (4:19)

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
United Kingdom
Willing to Relocate?
Locally
I am Looking to Marry
As soon as possible
My Income
up to 15k
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
Yes
Do I have children?
I have two children
My Living Arrangements?
I Live Alone
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
West Yorkshire
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.57m (5' 2")
My Build
Petite
My Hair Colour
Black
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
College
Subject I Studied
Business and Admin
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Urdu
Work
My Profession
Administration
My Job Title
Receptionist
Religion
Religiousness
Somewhat religious
My Sect
Just Muslim
Hijab/Niqab
No
Beard
No
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Always