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Seeking my best friend

Coco4
My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Religious
My Profession
Consultancy
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
Essex
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner
A Little Bit About Me
Asalaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah
I am a 43 year old Muslimah, born and raised in London, of Pakistani descent. I was previously married which lasted only a year. Despite only being married for a short period, Allaah awj had a plan and blessed me with a beautiful daughter, who is now 8 years of age, Allahumma baarik. I work full time as a manager in Digital Tech for a global consultancy and live in the Essex area (near East London). I wear hijab and dress modestly. I pray my daily salahs, fast and I am fairly proactive in seeking knowledge about the deen and implementing. I would regard myself as someone who is practising. Don’t do milaads and khatums.

I am a fun, loving and positive person. I'm an independent individual, who is confident and hard working, to be an example for my daughter. I’m a girlie girl, kind, generous and friendly. I enjoy spending time with my family and extended family often and my friends. I’m also quite homely, and enjoy being at home a lot too.

I understand the role of a wife and I have the qualities to make a house a home. I’m the ‘house-proud’ kind 😊

I’m a well rounded person who values family time and have a good work/life balance. I enjoy being active and regularly frequent the gym, weight train, play badminton & swimming and doing outdoorsy activities with my daughter.

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What I Am Looking For
He needs to be born and raised in the UK, living in East London/Essex area, or willing to relocate to London. Family involvement early on. Aged between 42-48.

I’m seeking someone practising - He should be self motivated to grow in his knowledge of the deen and practise it. He should have established his daily salahs. Must be observing a beard. Not doing khatums and milaads. Ideally not listening to music, as my daughter and I don’t - we do enjoy listening to nasheeds though - just makes living situation that little bit more accommodating. If you’re not consciously looking for a spouse with hijab, you’re not for me and I you!

I am seeking an ‘alpha’ man - who understands the role and responsibilities of a husband. Who has a strong character, to manage my strong personality 😆 😅
One who is compassionate, understanding and reasonable. He should be a mature well rounded individual. Someone who is confident, knows what he wants. One who is responsible and accountable for his actions. Doesn’t have to be too funny, as I can be funny for the both of us, with my dry humour! 🙃

Educated, professional and financially stable. He should have the adab and akhlaq to communicate and consult in a polite and respectful manner. Someone with a willingness to try new things, out of his comfort zone. I would ideally like him to be a fitness enthusiast, in a fit state and eating healthily.

Must be a non smoker.

If you struggle with inferiority complex and self doubt or seeking a wife to remind you of the importance of praying all your salah daily, at your age - you are not for me and I am not for you.

'A man who cannot lead me in prayer can not lead me in life'

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
United Kingdom
Willing to Relocate?
Locally
I am Looking to Marry
Next year
My Income
Prefer not to say
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
Unsure
Do I have children?
I have one child
My Living Arrangements?
I Live With Family
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
Essex
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.57m (5' 2")
My Build
Slim
My Hair Colour
Other
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Bachelors degree
Subject I Studied
BSc (Hons) Business Computing
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Urdu
Work
My Profession
Consultancy
My Job Title
Manager
Religion
Religiousness
Religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
Yes Hijab
Beard
Yes
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Always