A Little Bit About Me
Having been on this site for a few months, i am beginning to wonder what people are actually looking for instead of what they claim and what are they doing about it. I also wonder if true love actually exist in the real word or is it only in movies and fantasies? One of the reasons many of us are disappointed in our relationships is because we no longer make an effort and expect everything to fall in place by itself. I see most people so afraid to step out of their comfort zones and then wonder why they are alone and disappointed.
My name is Andil. Born and raised in Europe. Educated in the USA. I have also worked in the UAE and later in Pakistan. I would say I am an honest man for whom manners and decency hold alot of importance. I was raised with old school values which people raised in 80's and 90;s still may remember...i.e.....I help those in need...I believe in being polite...I show compassion to the elderly...love children...and lastly I believe in protecting and taking care of my lady and being chivalrous....am definately not the lustful type. Treat/view women as equals (Obviously).
Im a big fan of bollywood especially music of the 70's and 80's. If your favorite movie is Silsila or Pakeeza....then we might just have a match.
Definately not a "mama's boy" and rather independent in thinking. My aim in life is to be the best human being I can be. Im just a normal manly man and the only thing im proud of is my character. Have never smoked or gone near alcohol and never will. Never been in a haraam relation and never will. I was married earlier and have one 6 year old boy not living with me.
What I Am Looking For
My ideal match would be someone younger than me with an equal interest and awareness of Pakistani culture and one who is proud of it. Anyone who is prejudiced against it has no chance. By culture i mean the following
I like people who can hold intellectual and stimulating conversations. I tend to travel alot and will continue to do so. I love listening and watching rainfall and observe shooting stars. Im attracted by elbow lenght hair. I would prefer someone who has her priorities sorted out and would prioritize the family unit over her career. I am not looking for someone with kids as I don't think im capable to be a father figure to someone.
The people I am not likely to get along with are people who holds prejudices against my country. Im dual national but since there is only one slot for nationality on the site, i have mentioned the one which is dearer to me. I would like to AVOID people from USA....Canada....and Australia unless you are open to relocation..
If you are a wannabe angrez or an Arabic wannabe and have lost your identity then I will not be your best choice....
Not interested in a Barbie Doll or anyone suffering from anorexia...