A Little Bit About Me
My love language is brunch.
✅ All the cheeses
✅ Live music
✅ Action movies
✅ Medium rare ribeye
Must be open to taking multiple BuzzFeed quizzes.
I enjoy dressing up when the occasion calls for it as much as I love going bare-faced in athleisure wear while keeping active or being out in nature.
I have no problem taking up space for myself but I can also hold space for others who feel less comfortable doing so. I’m very assertive and direct, I rarely sugarcoat what I say. I’ll say whatever no one else is willing to say even I do face backlash because I value transparency, authenticity and openness in communication.
I can take the feedback and won’t shy away from conflict. You will always know where you stand with me and you don’t need to guess how I feel.
I have big energy and a passion for life. Every decision I make begins with the nawaitu and how it aligns with my purpose as Allah SWT intended it.
I am learning that there is strength in vulnerability. I don’t want to always be in control, I just don’t like to be controlled.
I’m leaning into trusting the bigger picture and the highest power to get me through this Dunya in preparation for Akhirah.
What I Am Looking For
Self-awareness, boundaries, emotional maturity, respect, honesty, clear communication, compassion, vulnerability and authenticity.
What I need from my future partner is to stand up for me sometimes, because I can’t be strong all the time.
You should be able to create a safe space for me to be vulnerable. I have a lot of big feelings and I feel ALL the feelings. At the same time, know that I will hold space for you to be vulnerable as well.
If I open up and share something with you in confidence, please don’t betray my trust. I already have a hard time leaning my trust in people. In God, I trust. In people, not so much.
I value direct and honest communication, so I would greatly appreciate that you cut to the chase and be truthful. What I don’t have tolerance for is being talked down to or gaslighted. We can have hard conversations while still maintaining an open and healthy discussion.