A Little Bit About Me
Salam Alaikom,
My life story is a bit unusual, full of life changing experiences that are no less than Allah swt’s miracles. This therefore has shaped me into an alien lol ( normal people are like aliens in this crazy world) I’m very simple, very original (no fillers, no surgeries etc lol), not social, zero social media, I am very Muslim, who did her own deep research, listened to the translation of Quran for maybe a hundred times, I love it and it’s author more than anything, I love every verse of it and try to live by it. Please ignore my inconsistent headcover for I am still a work-in-progress.
I come from a stable background. We, my siblings and I play badminton, basketball, sail, swim, cook, clean. garden, design, paint together, planted almost all kinds of fruits trees and berry bushes in our humble gardens as well as in nearby parks and forests lol ( we will die but at least other people and animals can eat). Can partially dive too lol. Happening yet old-school, we are friends so got zero friends outside. I like traditional roles in a marriage. I’m a tech / cloud/ cybersecurity engineer, a small tech entrepreneur, trying to build a global tech company, but not very career oriented as family comes first. As I said, I was raised in a stable household, My father worked really hard and my mother never worked and spent all her time on us, she prioritized investments over fashion and invested all of my father’s income in properties without riba, resulting into a good base for her kids, so I inherited/ own a couple of houses in Antwerp and Lahore, now this is a blessing but also has made things harder due to the European rules, so a prenup maybe requested by my family to feel better lol. My parents are the best team Alhamdullillah, may Allah swt bless them with the best in here and in the hereafter. My grandparents were the survivors of Wars, Most of their family members were killed. My ancestors might have traveled from Middle East, Not sure but my grandparents left several hundred acres of land in india and migrated to Pakistan empty handed, with zero assets, zero food, so they had to work really hard, Allah swt blessed them for they were displaced for the cause of Allah swt. This is what keeps me on the right path, kind, humble yet grounded.
I also had a fair share of life changing experiences lol such as being robbed in Malaysia in 2011 and spending a month in the ICU in Dubai in 2021, which wasted several years of my life, but has made me a better person.
I’d like to marry someone who is kind and loves to protect and provide for his wife and children and doesn’t care what his wife does, earns or owns. I will move in with my husband as moving places is in my blood lol, why do things the easy way when there are hard ways available ha 😅? and also because my family will use these houses for as long as they want to. Allah swt blesses everyone differently, so I don’t mind if you own nothing, but have islam in your heart. Not a fan of TV or music etc. I rarely listen to music while driving with my siblings, while driving alone I like to listen to the translation of Quran. My brother and I sometimes distribute flyers etc so that other people can find islam too.
I only seek halal, a kind, responsible man, a soulmate my soul has always longed for. To build our family together. I’ll let you be the leader, I hope you don’t dictate lol.
Currently live in Belgium. Not a refugee lol so racists, pls keep your stereotypes to yourself. Some Muslims think they are better than other Muslims , Jews think they are better, and Satan thinks he is better than all. Who wins? :)
Anyway, the rest is for later.
Life, sustenance, spouse, children and everything is from Allah swt alone.
Salam Alaikom
Rabbi la tazarni farda’n, wa anta khairul wariseen. Ameen
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