A Little Bit About Me
Assalaamalaikum, firstly I want to say thank you for stopping by, I hope you and your family are doing well
Below is my profile, please feel free to have a read through, if you have any further questions feel free to fire away I’ll be more than happy to answer 🙂
•My name is Ayesha
•I’m 24 years old (Turning 25 on the 23rd February 2025)
•British Pakistani
•Sunni
•From Chakwal in Pakistan (For those who do not know where chakwal is, it’s situated in between Jehlum and Islamabad)
•Caste- Malik Awan
•I live in Cardiff (Wales, born and bred also known as the land of sheepshaggers)
•No, I don’t have the Welsh accent I get told I sound like I’m from Birmingham I’m not too sure where I picked up the accent from but oh well 😂
•My height is 5ft4.6 inches to be precise
•Build- Curvy/thick (I’ve got a belly, stretch marks, cellulite) if that’s an issue please kindly jog on
•Education- Degree in Health and Social Care (Graduated in 2021)
•Unemployed (Currently on the job hunt)
•Marital Status- Single (Never married)
•Children- None, but I want 11 kids, yes you heard me 11 kids! I want a whole football team
•Languages spoken- English and Punjabi
•I don’t participate in Khatams
•I don’t celebrate milads
•I’m a Bubbly, Down to earth, Simple, Family oriented, Non-materialistic individual
•I’m full of humour (Been told I should have my own comedy show) I don’t think I’m that funny but ey if I make people laugh happy days
•I don’t smoke/drink alcohol/go clubbing, I ain’t going to lie I do smoke shisha once in a blue moon and when I do I only take 3 puffs any more than that I get high don’t ask how but it’s a sight to witness 😂
•Also I do have a red bull addiction (The juneberry flavour ai ai ai 😍 one big can of redbull gets me going, and yes I get high off redbull too I start acting as if I’m drunk well at least it’s not drugs I’m getting high off 😂
•I only eat halal (Blowing ‘Bismillah’ on haram food doesn’t make it halal just saying) 😂
•I don’t wear makeup (Only on special occasions/once in a while) I hate the feel of makeup on my skin, all them chemicals literally the second I put it on I want to take it off immediately literally feels like I slapped on a Halloween face mask
•I don’t drive as of yet but plan to in the future (so passenger princess it is until I drive) my dream car is a Golf GTI (just putting it out there, future husband take notes wink wink) 😉
•I’m a introvert, I don’t have friends (by choice of course) I enjoy my own company sad I know
•I’m not demanding at all! I don’t expect my husband to shower me with gifts, holidays, going out on expensive dinner dates once we’re married. Money can’t buy happiness for me! Buy me a chicken burger meal twice a week and I’m a happy bunny
•I rather be honest than lie I don’t pray daily. I try to pray every Jummah and try to keep all my fasts and pray in the month of Ramadan. I do intend to start praying daily
•If my husband does not want me to work after marriage I’m fine with that I’m happy to be a housewife but if he allows me to work then happy days I will (cost of living I get ya, who wouldn’t mind a extra pair of working hands in these difficult times)
•My timeframe for marriage is ideally to have a Nikah by the end February(2025) that’s when I turn 25, apparently according to my mum and the aunties any later than 25 I’m expired 😂
•I want to have a small wedding (I’m against having a big wedding for many reasons) so it would be nice to meet someone who’s on the same wavelength in terms of keeping it humble and simple with the wedding
•I’m happy to relocate anywhere in the UK,
I’m dying to leave Cardiff
•I’m happy to live with In-laws for up to 4 years but I would like for us to have our own place in the near future, I mean come on do you really want your family to listen to us do jiggy jiggy?
•May I may make it crystal clear that I’m only on this app strictly looking for a spouse Insha’allah, if your intention is not marriage I’m not interested, I’m happy to get to know someone for 6 months maximum, after 6 months if there’s compatibility and if we’re both happy I would like to have family involvement from both sides if your looking to get to know someone for a year without family involvement I’m not interested 🙂
•Also, after basic compatibility has been established I would like to meet up as soon as possible, I’m the type to get the ball rolling as quick as possible, only because I don’t want to waste time chatting for so long over the phone as if your some pen pal and then when it comes to meeting up we don’t like one another because everyone looks/acts different in person compared to over the phone basically in other words being catfished (Trust me it’s not nice I’ve had a few) and to be honest that alone is both our times wasted which I don’t want! If your looking for something online kindly please jog on
•In regards to distance, If distance is an issue for you as I live in Cardiff (Wales) please jog on, please don’t entertain the conversation for a few days and when it comes to meeting up then say distance is an issue, please be honest and straightforward I’ll rate you for that, I’m talking from experience hence why I’m stating this, I want to also make it clear that I don’t drive so me travelling to come see you will be a issue, plus I’ve got a curfew which is 8pm, yep at my big age I do have a curfew which is good at least I ain’t roaming around with the jjins after maghrib so unfortunately sorry to break it out to you if things are going well you’ll have to come down, I’m not saying come down every other day, it could be as little as once a week, I am happy to put in effort into travelling now and then as long as it’s only 2 hours away from me if travelling down is an issue once again please kindly jog on
Family ⬇️
Mum (Housewife)
Dad (Taxi driver)
2 younger brothers (22 and 18 years old)
1 younger sister (20 years old)
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What I Am Looking For
What I’m looking for in a spouse ⬇️
•British Pakistani (Must be born and bred in the Uk)
•24-30 years old, I want to say thank you for all the men who have shown interest in me who are out of my age range preference but come on guys 40+ you lot be old enough to be my dad 😂
•Must be Sunni
•Height- 5ft8+, apologises to all the short kings out there!
•I’m open to smokers (Cigarettes, Shisha, vapes) but as a wife I would slowly help you cut down only for your health
•I’m open to those who don’t hold a degree I get it education isn’t for everyone
•Job wise I’m open to anyone who has a job that pays well to run a family in the future
•I don’t expect you to have a house ready for me to walk into once we’re married but I would like to have our own place in the near future
•Last of all, just be yourself. I adore and have a huge amount of respect for those who are true to themselves and others. Someone with a bubbly personality would be a bonus!
I’m not interested ⬇️ ❌
•If you drink alcohol ❌
•If your involved with drugs (sell or take) ❌
•Weed is a BIG FAT NO for me even if you smoke it occasionally ❌
•If you go clubbing ❌
•If you have tattoos ❌
•Controlling/abusive behaviour (Both verbally/physically) short tempered ❌
•If you have children outside of marriage or from a previous marriage ❌
Thank you for reading my profile, Best of luck with your search 😊
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