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In the Name of Allah, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful!
I’m looking for a mother to my children, not a maid to my household.
I was raised in Sweden by a Lebanese Mother and a Palestinian Father, in a household that consisted of 80% women. Being raised in Sweden, I was exposed to the Western culture; in schools, playing sports and other social gatherings. However, inside of the household, we were exposed to our eastern culture and tradition, creating a hybrid version of an Arab Muslim who understands the west, actually enjoys the west and relates to the west. Having said that, I’m NOT looking for the west-side kind of love story here, I’m looking for the east-side kind of love story. I want my love story to be a companionship rather than a relationship. William Shakespeare wrote stories about relationships, of love and desire, relationships that were forbidden and restricted such as Rome & Juliet. Rather, I’m looking for a companionship, one that god so beautifully manifested between our beloved Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) and his wife Khadija (May Allah be pleased with her). When everybody rejected out prophet Muhammad (PBUH), Khadija believed in him, stood by him and supported him.
If that seems a little bit odd to you, I simply suggest that you Google the meaning for relationship and companionship and hopefully you will understand where I’m coming from.
Under the feet of my mother lays my paradise, please know that!
I hope that you believe the same; your salvation lies under the feet of your parents, especially your mothers’ acceptance. May they be happy with us InshaAllah.
With all due respect to all of you whom might be doctors, engineers, managers, lawyers and business owners, your title and occupation carries no significant weight. Your title will not follow you in the grave. You and me, on the day we are going to be buried, will InshaAllah be wearing the same white cloth snugged so tight around our own self with nothing else but our Hassanat & Sayiat (good and bad deeds). If an occupation or some sort of title is important in the decision making process to whom your future husband will be, we probably won’t be a good fit. Your occupation will not necessarily instill reason or patience, however, your character will. That is a significant factor that I’m looking for. By all means, if your character is one that respects the elderly, have patience with the young and compassion with the less fortunate and carries one of the above mentioned titles, I salute you!
It’s a shame that I see so many sisters her judge my brothers on here based on their job title and occupation.
The Prophet (PBUH) was in a hurry to find the best of men around him in order to marry his daughters. The Sadiq Al-Ameen (PBUH) looked for god fearing husbands, which would love his daughters because of the love he had towards Allah and his messenger, and not the other way around. He did not seek healers or business men, he sought for men who would fear god and do the right thing when no one was watching. I do my best to always make the right decision which favors the Akhira rather then this Duniya, and god knows I’m not perfect. If that’s the kind of guy you are looking for, please, don’t hesitate to introduce yourselves or your daughter/sister. I’m waiting to complete my other half of my deen, the one that will help me strive to a better me for the love of God and his Messanger, Muhammad (PBUH).
InshaAllah, if you think I might be someone that remotely resembles the father you want for your children, start this conversation with a pure intent and put your trust in Allah, InshaAllah.
AssalamuAlaikum WarahmatuAllahi Wabarakatuh!
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