A Little Bit About Me
i am Ahmet, I am a Turkish and i live in Turkey. I am simply a mind created by Quran and i try to be a good Muslim.
I am interested in religion philosophy, science and technology. Like biking, long walks, sci-fi movies/series and brainstorming.
I love my job and never get tired of searching, developing and creating things for people.
Solving their problem is the only thing that drives me and as an Engineer serving the army of ISLAM with my designs (Turkish army) is my Cihad.
I was kinda Loving Someone i Haven't Met.
There is a difference between being lonely and not having too many friends. The fact is, i have a different perspective about things in life, my views are not like most others and are often not that easily accepted by many, thus i do not consider that i have a lot of friends. Nevertheless i do not feel lonely because i m always busy (i may not appear busy because i do not feel a need to look busy), i m busy thinking, because i love thinking.
I don't drink, i don't smoke and i do not fool around. I have a job and i earn enough to take care of myself and i will be working hard to take care of my family too. I am not rich; i don't have my car, i don't have my house (i rent) i earn what i need and i don’t waste. I am working for maintaining my life with minimum requirements. For short, i am a minimalist. I care quality more than quantity.
I am here for MARRIAGE only. I am not looking for a girlfriend.
I have been busy with my own plans and projects for quite time and now i realise that something big is missing whatever i try. it is the woman who is gonna be my only and forever love.
I have never been in love and never had any girlfriend intentionally because of the respect of my future wife.
I kept my heart and my body clean for her as a gift. I do not believe in divorce. I do believe there is only one woman for every man and love is only once.
So i am looking for same mentality. I am looking for a wife who never had any physical relation with a man, Who is , chaste, humble and the most important with a warm smile.
I am Looking for my FIRST LOVE, my FIRST.
I just don't like to talk with many women and i don't see any point of talking with a person who doesn't share same values when it comes to love/marriage/getting to know someone. That's the best way to protect my own chastity. Sorry if this sounds rude to you.
What I Am Looking For
The right woman will show up and read everything in this profile because she is a reader. She likes to read especially when she looks for a husband and she will not look for another man after she read my profile because she thinks that she already have found the man she is looking for. She will never reply or chat with any other men once she read this profile because she knows this is the only way to have a pure and honest love. She is private, not a fake or having anoymous online acounts to chat with men.
She knows who is she looking for and she is wise enough to ask right questions to identify him. She is here and ready for a marriage. Not here to spend her years with players.
My view of MARRIAGE;
A man should lead by example. When a man shows love and respect for his wife...when he is responsible and caring...when he doesn't lead with tyranny, ..then, the wife will have no issues in naturally viewing him as head of household. It's not as hard as people make it out to be, really. But, men who are not respectful, loving, caring or responsible...if those types of men expect their wives to hold them as leaders in the home, it might be an uphill climb for that man. Would such a man lead a company? Lead a country in battle? Would you trust someone to lead you, who was thoughtless, and didn't care about your needs or feelings? Likewise for husbandship. Men shouldn't expect to be given a leadership role, just because they are biologically men. It takes work, patience, love and the sacrificing of self, for a man to be a true leader in his home.
I wanted to add these lines here because it seems more elaborating. Let me give an example
my wife like to work and she has a right to work. Not gonna tell her that she can't but as i am her husband and her leader she has to convince me about the place she wants to work because my first priority is my wife and i would never be okay if it is not safe. Being a leader of my wife means she will listen to me and consider my concerns about her safety.