A Little Bit About Me
Hi I'm 23years old female from indonesia. I am secure & happy with myself.
A little bit about myself:
I enjoy:
* travel
*camping by a lake
*gardening
*home decorating
*music
*my cats
I am:
* independent
* honest
* I have a great sense of humor
* family & friends are very important to me.
Just send me message if you want to know more about me.
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What I Am Looking For
The purpose of marriage is to create Sakinah. Sakinah is created through the use of the potential that is granted by Allah to husband, wife, and also the role of all family members.
Marriage named by al qur'an as nikkah and zawwaj, it should be understood correctly, because the choice of words that is a choice and not a legitimate God made ??marriage except by using one of the two names the word.
Nikkah means fused and zawwaj means in pairs, husband and wife should be united but in the same time they have to realize that they are two figures but in pairs.
Love is not the imposition of the will, but the dialogue between the two "me". A person who loves someone had to admit that someone that he loves has her own personality, and her personality should not be merged.
Love is the dialogue between the two "me", marriage is a dialogue and each couple should rocognizing the personality and the existence their partner.
it is not love thats only loves their own self, it is not love that obtrude.
Love must be fought and we have to fight for it through the potency that given by Allah to human, that called Mawaddah.
Rahmah is a feeling, a psychiatric condition, that lead a person to feel sore when they see the fecklessness of others. Husband have to has the Rahmah, to see his wife's fecklessness and also be able to fell its pain becouse of the fecklessness. Wives also should has Rahmah to reduce the pain tat she saw from her couple. It is called mawaddah warohmah, and it needs to be fought by each couple.
Nikkah is the union and zawwaj is in pairs. Indeed, a husband and wife must have similarities, and also must have differences. At least there are four similarities and one differences. They both are alive, they both are adults, they both are in love, and they both are equally responsible. The difference is a male and a female.
They both are alive, life is a sense and motion. Don’t even hide anything on your couple, move to different way across your partner. And should always be the same feeling.
The difference is a man and a woman. There are differences in male and female traits. Do not let men become women, and women should not also be a man.
There are admirable traits for a man, and there is also a commendable traits for women. Admirable traits for a man are brave, cheap hands and humble. Commendable trait for women is not easy to be disturbed, like a tame pigeons, covered hand, in the sense of not being wasteful, so always take care of property and income of her husband, then the last character for women as well commendable humility, and covered hands is a person who does not dare to act except after consultation with her husband.
That distinctions that must be learned, which should be kept in mind in order to continue the same step forward and alwas in one mind. Then the happy everlasting marriage will be reach.
Allahumma nawwir qulubana, washroh sudurona, wa anzil sakinatah alaiha.
allahumma janibna ssyakka wa su adzdann wal gihrah
Allahumma Robbana Habblana wadzuriyatina qurrota a’yun waj alana lil muttaqina imamma.
Wasshollahu ala sayidina muhammad,walhamdulilahirobil alamin..
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