A Little Bit About Me
I feel like I'm such a complex person to describe.. Lol. I can be shy but also confident, reserved but chatty, mature but silly. Kind and caring, but sometimes savage... I also love a bit of banter. I guess it depends on when and who I'm with. I definitely have a mature outlook on life however, and have always been known as someone wise for my age. I'm someone who can happily look after myself, and have a small circle of friends and family whom I love and care for immensely. Islam is close to my heart, and although I struggle, I do see it as the way of life.
My favourite pastimes include things like writing poetry, watching movies/documentaries/theatre shows, and admiring nature (amongst many other interests). I also have a bucket list full of things I want to do... Life is very short so I want to make the most of it while I'm here.
Career wise, I'm not 100% sure where I'm headed right now, but I'm interested in working in human rights policy/research In Sha Allah. I'm currently working on building up some insight/experience, and would like to embark on a Masters degree in the future.
What I Am Looking For
I'm not looking for specifics, but a sense of responsibility and a caring nature are traits that I'd find attractive in my husband. Someone who's fairly clean and tidy would be a bonus.
Religion is important to me so I'd like someone who is genuinely interested in Islam. I understand that everyone is at different stages in their journey and I myself am slow in progress. But I'd like someone who will respect the rights of his wife and is willing to grow together in the deen.
Essentially, I'm looking for a relationship where we can confide in each other, find comfort in each other, support each other and guide each other. As best friends, companions and partners. I think in marriage it's very important to understand and accept our spouse's flaws and weaknesses, as no person and no relationship is ever perfect.
I guess the rest is the Qadr of Allah.