A Little Bit About Me
Assalaamu Aliakum :)
I'm on dean, with imperfections, very chilled and easy going nature, pray five times a day every day, fajr being the most difficult to keep. May Allah make it easy for us Ameen
I’m a revert to our beautiful deen 22 years ago alhamdulilah the best thing I done in my life to date, my deen is the foundation of my life, my life revolves around my deen, and like every single living person on the planet, my imaan goes up and it goes down, if I had to describe what kind of Muslim I am, one word would best describe this Salafi please sisters don’t let this stop you from reading more, all Salafi means is I am on the Qur’an and the Sunnah of our beautiful Prophet PBUH, also the the three golden generation after him and their understanding of the teachings of Prophet PBUH that’s it, I am not a strict or harsh brother quite the opposite, our beautiful deen is easy and there is no strictness or harshness, but it is us the people who are applying the deen that introduce the strictness and harshness and make it very difficult our beautiful prophet PBUH said “that we must not be harsh in anything or to soft, just stay on the middle ground”, I am far from perfect and as in everybody there is always room for improvement, I am none judgemental, but if I see I might be able to help someone improve on something with a gentle reminder, then I will try, but at the end of the day, the way you choose to apply your deen in your life is a matter for you and Allah and no one else. I trust people when I first encounter them and let their own words and actions convince me of otherwise, I’m like an open book, I have nothing to hide, no hidden agenda, don’t do mind games I’m very chilled, humble, I am mature, have respect for people, a People's person, someone understanding, caring, trust worthy, honest, dependable, loyal, affectionate, I have empathy for others less fortunate through no fault of their own, kind, considerate, thoughtful, sincere, zero tolerance for lies and deceit, compassionate, very easy going, easy to talk too, good listener, very loving and much much more.
I am born and bred in the uk, but my parents are Jamaican (oh dear there goes a quarter of potential wives, decided to go jogging) :), not that my race should make a difference because in our beautiful deen, a man is not messured by his race, but by the way he practices his deen, but what should matter is my deen and how I apply it, also how I intend on treating you, How I intend on treating my new wife In Shaa Allah is very easy to describe and that is by the example of our beautiful Prophet PBUH for he is the best of example in all worldly matters. I have 6 children, but only the youngest two live with me, 21 year old son, beautiful, humble, and polite young man and my 13 year old daughter going on 25, she is so beautiful, and very precious to me, typical young woman in the making, knows she has a mouth and uses it :) You will find I am very different from the normal run of the mill brothers that you know or have encountered on here, I don’t have that culture rubbish to deal with, I think I have put enough out there about me to stimulate a little communication, don’t be shy ladies feel free to ask anything you want to know no matter how personnel or delicate, as for now this the only way to try and get a feel of one another and start the exploration of compatibility :)
What I Am Looking For
I am looking for someone special to fill a big empty space in my heart, I would hope I can live with your imperfections and you live with mine :), In Shaa Allah, to complete half of our deen, also to prepare in this world for the world in the hereafter, basically someone special to share our lives together, I would hope your core foundation would be first and foremost our beautiful deen, your children, then your parents then me In Shaa Allah I would like you to be praying your 5 daily prayers, wear Hijab, I prefer if you are divorced and no problem if you already have children, as I am one of those brother who realises that which I seek may well come as a package Alhamdulilah :), and would prefer if you was no younger than 35 years old, prefer you to be bubbly and love to laugh (a Joker) :) And big big bonus if you speak fluent Arabic
Am I asking too much? :)
Must enjoy all the womanly chores ie: cooking, cleaning, washing, favourite past time kitchen lol please don’t be reaching for the rolling pin, I was just joking lol
What I’m looking for is a well-grounded sister on deen, someone who can hold their own, I don’t mean an arguing partner, I mean someone who is intelligent and articulate and can express themself, the latter should not be too hard, as most of the sisters across the face of the planet are very talkative lol, I will encourage you to maintain you family ties, I will be hoping that me and you, will be able to talk about everything and anything no secrets what so ever, be totally open and honest with me and I will return much much more, I am looking for someone special to share my life with, so the operative word being share, we share the good times, we share the not so good times, if there is work, we share, when there is fun, we share, we share everything, we walk side by side in this this life holding hands, In Shaa Allah, into the hereafter (Jennah) I’m seeking someone special where I In Shaa Allah will complement your life and you complement mine In Shaa Allah.
I’m looking for happiness in a wife, I am looking for love, I’m looking for companionship, I’m looking for a best friend, I’m looking for a soul mate, I’m looking for a partner in crime and I’m looking for someone to love and you to love me, in Shaa Allah, I have a whole lot of love and affection just bursting at the seams to shower on someone special, Any of you beautiful sisters out there looking for real love and happiness? :) One final thing, there has to be attraction, sorry I know that will bother some of the sisters, but to me very important after your deen, so if you make contact please make sure you have a picture on display or send one
what I am looking for is not set in stone, I have learnt on this journey to find someone special, that we have to be prepared to give and take a little, be flexible in our requirements, and In Shaa Allah, that may help us get closer to that which we seek, so if you have read this far and feel we may be compatible or just like what you have read then message me, remember none of us are perfect.
May Allah bless us all with good pious righteous spouses and make our search easy. Armeen