A Little Bit About Me
I am new to this, and literally forced by a friend to sign up. So if you have sent me a message and I havnt replied, either it's because I'm still getting used to how this whole thing works and havnt yet found the message box, or unfortunately I have felt that we are not gunna work out. Whichever way I sincerely do apologize.
A little about me, This one is soo difficult, I'm really not sure what to say. Ask me what you wanna know, I'm not very good at talking about myself and I'm certainly not one to blow my own trumpet.
You will find more about me on the "what am I looking for" section.
What I Am Looking For
Firstly let me start by saying this, I sound more knowledgeable than I actually am! People do tell me that I'm quite knowledgeable, And this is a problem, because I'm really not.
When It comes to religion and life in general i regard myself a student before anything else. I have a thirst for knowledge, especially for Islam, which in turn spills out into all other areas of life because Islam covers every aspect of the human drama, and caters for the physical, emotional and spiritual needs of the human being. This for the large part is based on a set of principles not a straight jacket. And so there is expansion in thought.
As everyone else Here I too am looking for someone I can connect with. We don't necessarily need to have everything in common, we don't need to be as smart as each other, but a few moral principles have to be there, honesty and loyalty are a must in any relationship.
As far as deen goes and practicing Islam, well, that one is a little tricky because I am aware that in the world of material in which we live, Islam to many people has multiples of personal interpretations. And despite the growing number of Muslims most are ignorant of what this deen is really about. So this is a subject we'll definitely be discussing, and again it's totally okay if we have slightly different views and depths of understanding, there is, and always has been an element of diversity in this deen and so I accept and welcome it. But providing we are genuinely willing to learn is enough to set the grounds to move forward.
Note: again, I sound more knowledgeable than I actually am. Please Don't be intimidated by this. But this is a religion which I have come to fall in love with, it really does put life into perspective and has helped me grow into the person that I am and taught me soo much. it's far far more than just a set of blind dogmatic rituals. Allaah engages us intellectually through the Quran. And I hope to help others understand this engagement as it really is a most fascinating one..
As far as I go, and describing my personality, i just can't find words to describe myself. Am I fun to be around? This really depends on how we connect, our chemistry, some people find me fun to be around and others can't stand me.
In terms of socializing and having a good time I'm all up for that, but the person I would most like to have fun with is the woman whom I marry, so connection is key. however in the midst of a conversation I always like For it to be meaningful, you know so there is something to always learn, in the midst of laughin we also wanna be learning, that of course will take some skill and practice. Again I really do believe it comes down to chemistry, and that connection really is a mysterious one. SubhanAllaah. It cannot be described, that's probably why it's called chemistry.
Oh and can I cook? Yes. But I'm a nutritional fanatic.
I also love training! I'm a former full contact Kickboxer and have competed on quite a high level. As contradictory as this will sound I am not a violent person. I genuinely am not. But I do like the idea of being strong, and to be able to defend myself and those around me. The importance of a strong healthy body cannot be overlooked. It's the greatest blessing by far of all the blessings granted to us by Allaah. Health truly is a crown which only the sick can see.
Do I like watching movies? Yes.
Do I like reading, Yes.
What kind of books? ...Take one wild guess 💭
Family? Family is important no doubt. But the real family all my focus and energy will go on is the woman I marry and my children whom she gives birth to. everything else will be secondary.
Okay, I'm gunna stop here, before I bore the hell out of everyone.
Let me finish by saying that May Allaah protect you and me from falling into the wrong hands.
May Allaah protect us from each others evil.
May Allaah endow upon you a humble heart, a tongue which continuously utters His praise, and a body strong enough to withstand any calamity, and a pious husband; that when he see's you, he becomes happy, and protects your wealth and honor in your absence.
May Allaah accept from you and from me.
Wassalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu.