A Little Bit About Me
Assalaamu 'Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah
**Please READ my whole profile BEFORE contacting me :-) ***
Do you want a high maintenance wife?
Do you want a non-respectful wife?
Do you want to spend nights in looking after the kids while she is constantly with her girls?
If YES please ignore this profile- we are none of these things. LOL
We have put my status as annulled/ divorced - just for clarification "the girl never lived with her ex-husband or even stepped foot in his house" only nikkah was done which ended very shortly.
I am Waseem (UK national by birth) the brother in law of ‘Rabeel’-young lady in the profile picture (her elder sister is my wife).
The girl's family are of Pakistani origin - Punjab region- Jhelum, Urdu speaking and Sunni.
Rabeel herself is educated to BCOM (Commerce) which is the same as UK Degree level with a caring, funny, smiley personality, she is able to hold a intellectual conversation in English, understanding and compassionate and dedicated. She holds positive outlook on life and is their for those who need her.
My Sister in law is a 'Quran Hafizah' (Recited Quran by Heart for those who do not know)
We are a Modern but Traditional family (we know our limits according to our faith) but as with all young ladies she keeps a fashionable but modest appearance. LOL
I have listed a few of Rabeel's qualities below:
2. Happiness (It's not about money, looks or status)
3. Respectful of others
4. Easygoing and fun
8. Sense of humor
9. Practicing Muslima
10. Ability to hold a intellectual conversation
She also likes to keep fit, going for walks and watching movies. Lives within boundaries of our Deen, She would like to improve further, hopefully together with her future partner
WE BELIEVE IN HONESTY, LOYALTY, COMPASSION, INTEGRITY , BEING THERE FOR FAMILY and having FAITH.......................................
We have had the unfortunate experience of a UK born Pakistani being married to my sister in law in March 2017- disappearing from my little sister’s life hence we have had her marriage annulled, we as a family did not do a ‘Ruksati’ only the nikkah ceremony was performed (evidence can be provided if needed)
She never spent time alone with this chap due to the Ruksati / Walima not being performed. – she was only married for a few months & was not in contact with her ex-husband during this time. (March 2017 – June 2017) -he was suffering from Depression & Anxiety (6 years) which his family decided was not relevant to mention before the nikkah, if we knew this before- our family would have never agreed in the first place! Marriage is not a joke- it emotions and feelings!
The family consists of 4 brother including myself, and 4 sisters including my wife…..and of course ‘amee’ my mother in law. (doctors, business professionals, government officials)....my father in law (Abu Jaan) is no more with us deceased June 2017)
We as a family enjoy a laugh and a joke, encourage laughter as it mixes well when you have had a long day at work-hence eases the tension of life :)
NO TIME WASTERS PLEASE.
NO MEN THAT THINK WOMEN ARE MAIDS or LESSER THAN A MAN
Allah Subhana Tala has given equal right to both men and women- with their own duties ( as equal to each other)
What I Am Looking For
We are looking for a British national with Pakistani ethnic background, Punjabi/Urdu mother tongue, educated professional, looking for someone kind and considerate, but also fun and bubbly, who enjoys good conversation (not boring).
A Sunni Muslim with family and religious values, down to earth, GSOH, easy to talk to and tries to be positive in all circumstances. Someone willing to build a family together and share the joys of life together, understanding the responsibilities that come along as well.
We will consider divorced, annulled individuals- those without children.
Someone who is happy to have family involvement from the BEGINNING and is able to respect females- they are the mothers / future mothers of mankind.
An open minded yet individual who understand the boundaries of our deen.
Inshallah may Allah(swt) help us all to find the right lifetime partner.
Live, Love & Stay Happy
Jazakullah Khair , Regards
(Brother in law & living in the UK since birth- Yes you will speak to myself first before you are able to speak to the young lady in the photo)