A Little Bit About Me
Probably like many of you looking on here and at my profile, I’ve been married to my career for the last few years, but am now actively seeking a replacement for it!
I was born and brought up in Northampton, however I am more than familiar with my Bengali roots - which doesn't mean I'm a freshy by the way! I like to think I am very likeable, kind hearted, good mannered, can communicate well and hold a conversation or at least my own standing with any type or level of person and would like to see if there is someone similar out there.
I have been lucky enough to have been able to get myself educated to MBA level and forge a great career which has involved a lot of international travel and some great experiences and I will want to travel more but with that elusive someone who I might be lucky enough to find!
Although I understand that many ladies looking at my profile would probably be career focused, I would like to state that my focus has shifted from commitment to career to commitment to marriage and I firmly believe that the same is needed from a potential partner - we are getting older and can't focus on careers forever (which doesn't mean you can't ever work by the way!).
Religious practise is something that I know I must improve on and I am hoping that the special someone will help me become stronger and more practising and to eradicate those everyday excuses that seem to get in the way of becoming a good Muslim - you may know what they are 😀
What I Am Looking For
The person must be Bengali and Sylheti - sorry, it just wouldn’t work otherwise!
I would like to make the following points just so that we don’t waste time - they aren’t demands, they are more like observations and experiences from communicating with people, being invited to see brides etc so if any apply or make you uncomfortable then please I ask you politely not to come forward...
- As mentioned I am Divorced, no kids or ties from previous.
- No, I will not show you my bank statements
- No, I will not show you my passport
- Yes there will be non Mahrams in the household
- Yes I am lucky enough to have my parents live with me so no independent living
- No I will not consider moving closer to your mums house
- No I will not be guaranteeing you a holiday every 3 or 4 months
- Yes I am looking to get married ASAP, not date or mess about
I hope I have not offended anyone reading this but I want to just set expectations from the start.
I know the above may sound harsh but i can say that there is more to life than living by yourself and wanting to have the freedom of cooking without your hijab etc etc