A Little Bit About Me
** InshaAllah I will always reply to any messages / contacts because returning a salaam is the least I can do. I would really appreciate the same in return.**
I'm a big believer in manners and politeness. I try my best to be considerate of others and just try to make people's day better in whatever way I can.
I love sports, movies and comedy.
I like to catch up on a lot of satirical shows but also spend time surfing Netflix for interesting things.
I'm pretty well travelled and have a well rounded understanding of the world.
I'm quite introspective and find relationship dynamics super interesting.
I was married previously but it didn't workout.
I have 2 boys who don't live with me but who mean the world to me.
It's important that I make this crystal clear, I'm not looking for a mother to my kids. They already have one who they live with.
I'm on this site to find MYSELF the woman I want to spend my life with and to whom I can devote myself.
I'm not scared of responsibility and I know that it's my willingness to take on my responsibilities rather take the easy way out which has led me to this website
I'm looking for someone who stimulates my mind and can make me laugh. A sense of humour is very attractive.
I'm not the kind to judge anyone on how much or little they may practice their faith. It's every individual's personal journey.
I follow the Qur'an and Sunnah. I don't believe in mysticism, innovations, extremism or such. If you need any further explanation of what that means then please free to ask.
I don't know what you think I am based of that previous part of my profile but I'm confident that whatever you are thinking I'm not that.
So if you think you are a captivating Muslim woman please feel free to message me. Apparently there are so few these days that I'm putting my trust in Allah and if I find my partner tomorrow or in two years from now then I'm content with that, it is what has been written for me.
In the interest of fairness it would be nice to see with whom I am speaking, so please have pictures on your profile.
I am not averse to speaking with women who are divorced with or without children.
To marry a divorced woman is praiseworthy and anyone who tells you otherwise is unaware of what the messenger of Allah (saws) said.
What I Am Looking For
Someone who can be my closest friend.
Someone who I am happy to call mine.
Someone who can make me laugh and whom I can listen to talk about various subjects in an articulate and considered manner.
Someone non judgemental and who understands that to better one another is a TEAM effort and not a nagging competition or finger pointing exercise.
I want to pray with my wife, eat with my wife, create new memories with her.
I want to lay my head on her lap and have my chin scratched like a cat.
I'm not too proud to marry a woman more knowledgeable than I.
Any man so arrogant to not want to learn from his wife is only harming himself.
By the same token I'm not so arrogant that I think myself above someone just starting to learn about their Deen.
I would love to be someone's rock, support system and encouraging motivation.
It's not about where we are on our journey but what journey we are on.
I sincerely want to find someone I can share the journey with.