A Little Bit About Me
Are you written for me?
I originally come from Ireland but grew up in South East London from the age of seven. I have a very quick, witty sense of humor, and ideally need someone sharp who can understand me. Or you could be left, baffled 😀
I am a very happy, positive, uplifting charming, gentle, calm, funny, loyal and trustworthy person.
I reverted at the age of 18, after seeing someone praying publicly. I wanted to understand what could motivate someone, to pray, with everyone looking. I learned about Islam, and reverted within three months.
My preference is for someone aged 40 upwards. That is my preference, and I will not respond, to ,messages from men, significantly younger than me.
I will only meet with someone who has a sincere wish to, have a lasting marriage. I am not interested in someone who is temporary. So those looking for a girlfriend, should look elsewhere.
Everyone comes into our lives for one of three reasons, a trial, a lesson, or a blessing. I am ready for my blessing inshallah.
Allah gifted me with three beautiful children, the youngest is nearly eighteen, they all live with me.
For pleasure I like eating out, socialising, swimming, theatre, cinema,reading and writing.
I am a very positive person and need someone of a similar nature. I work as a counsellor, writer, campaigner and work through social media primarily Facebook.
I have been divorced for three years, and have healed fully alhumduallah.
I am very straight forward and direct, therefore do not play games, with people's hearts. I expect the same honesty from others.
I would love to find my written husband inshallah. If something is written for you, it will be yours, even if it is under two mountains.
Therefore I am not interested in temporary, I will only meet with someone who has the intention of permanent marriage.
I also will not be immediately marrying, we will get to know each other with family involvement. Therefore brother's who are hungry for a super fast marriage, so they can enjoy filling their desire can also look elsewhere.
If you think we you could be each other's blessing, send me a message inshallah.
What I Am Looking For
If I were to wish for a husband the first thing I would select is good character, sincere.
Then followed by these traits :
I expect him to be financially stable.
I am a excellent communicator
It is therefore a necessity that my future spouse is able to hold a conversation.
A sense of humor is a must.
I want a spouse who understands the meaning of taqwa.
He needs to be kind hearted, with a charitable mindset, as I believe, we live this life, to benefit and enrich the lives of others.
I want someone who is also ready to find the one.
Ideally someone raised in the UK.
If he has not been raised in the UK he has to have indefinite leave to remain.
This is not someone who needs to marry to stay in the UK.
This is based on personal experience the reality is, sometimes the cultural differances are just to great to overcome.
Before contacting me ask your family, if they will love a white revert inshallah. If you know they will not be happy with your choice, respect them, and please don't message me, as I don't do drama.
I want to enjoy life and do not wish to struggle to make things work. If someone is temporary in your life, you will struggle to communicate, every conversation, will feel like a uphill struggle.
When someone is written for you, you will feel at peace in their company.
They will bring tranquility into your life.
Remember the verse of Quran thats on every Muslim wedding invitation?
The one that goes:
"And of His signs is that He created for you from amongst yourselves spouses that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and love. Indeed in that is a sign for people who reflect." (Surah Rum 30:21)
If you are ready to marry and wish to live in tranquility send me a message.